Posted Thu Jun 25, 2009 11:18 PM
I hope you can answer this issue regarding my inconsistency of performing in bed.
With this one girl I was basically crazy about.. I could last for hours on end and climax multiple times and still maintain a firm erection.
Then when me and that girl had a falling out.. I am unable to perform nearly as well with other partners and am never nearly excited to have intercourse with other partners.
When I was with the girl I was crazy about I thought I was a machine and performed way above the norm.. But lately with the other partners I'm beginning to think I am below average with performance.
Thanks in advance for your input regarding my situation
Posted Thu Jun 25, 2009 11:41 PM
Posted Wed Jul 01, 2009 02:48 PM
I have a similar problem to this. I have only had 2 sexual partners (what can I say I'm old fashioned). The first partner I could last 45-60 minutes a time. When I split with her, I went without sex for quite a while. I met my current partner 3 years ago, and since then, sex has lasted 5-10 mins tops.
It's annoying her as she ain't getting hers, and me as I feel as if I am not pleasing her. She says it's ok, but I think deep down it's not.
Posted Wed Jul 01, 2009 03:12 PM
Posted Wed Jul 01, 2009 04:06 PM
When I first started having sex I was with a girl that used to say fucked up shit to me about my performance so that gave me a complex for a while... a long while lol
Anyway I got rid of that bitch quick and ended up getting over it for the most part then I split with my girlfriend at the time a couple years ago and didnt find any girls I cared that much for and was able to perform fine. However once I found a girl I was really into I just went back to being pathetic in bed... it was weird I wasnt even having any real orgasms, my body and mind were just working against me.
I had to learn again how to be comfortable and not put so much pressure on myself. Now I fuck more like I feel I should, although I dont know if I will ever be truly satisfied until I have some kind of ungodly control over ejaculation.