Trouble keeping it up...
Posted Sun Jul 05, 2009 06:40 PM
So, I've been sexually inactive for over two years, until recently. I've been seeing a girl for over a month now and, well, I wouldn't have wanted it to be under these circumstances, but we were drinking and one thing lead to another. I was actually pretty much sober by the time things were getting heavy and it was around 3:30 AM and I was already pretty tired as well. So, we have sex for about...I'm going to say 4 minutes and I notice I'm starting to go limp and obviously she noticed too. After about a minute of trying to get back up, we both just kind of gave up. It has nothing to do with her because I'm extremely attracted to her and she turns me on probably more than she knows. I think it just had something to do with being tired and a little drunk. I was terribly embarrassed afterward and in the morning, but she just told me to laugh about it and not get so concerned about it, but of course now I'm freaking out that the next time things go that way I won't be able to perform, again. This has happened in the past with my ex while sober, but it definitely wasn't 4 minutes in (maybe 15 or so), but I did finish then. I heard that stressing out about being able to pleasure the girl (or any kind of stress for that matter) can get you limp, but does anyone have any pointers from experience?
Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 02:43 AM
Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 03:02 AM
I usually turn down sex when I'm tired.. even though it's some hot-ass chick. Not that I can't screw when I'm tired, but I've observed I don't have as good stamina or control over my ejaculation when I'm dead tired.
And if I'm high on alcohol, I find that I don't cum as easily, and can't get as hard. So when you put the two together, you are low on stamina, and unable to cum. Pretty bad spot to be in.
Usually I'd recommend Stamina Sprays.. but they aren't any good if you're totally flat out tired and can't get a reliable erection to begin with.
You might just wanna click in on the link in my msg signature. It's about this Instant Hot Rod Extreme pills that I take when out on stagging nights with the guys, or if I anticipate being out late with a horny babe.
No guy wants to let a girl down in bed. And, neither do I want word to get around that I'm bad in bed when truth is, it's just bad timing!
For me, it made all the difference between going limp in minutes and my gal getting all shit-faced with me, and her getting the f*** of her life and begging for mercy. If you need to, give it a shot, dude, and lemme know the results.
Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 03:33 AM
Posted Mon Jul 06, 2009 11:39 PM