How to turn up the heat
Posted Sun Jul 12, 2009 09:50 AM
I think having a couple of young kids has placed a wet blanket on things. I really want something that will get her going, any suggestions I am trying to avoid RSI.
All suggestions welcome, especially from australia. Thanks
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Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 05:41 AM
I'd go for a walk in the park, or by the ocean, take her out to supper, go over the things that brought you both together and set aside some quiet time after the kids are tucked. A touch of aftershave on a cleanly shaved face (if possible) helps. Low lights and soft music. Make each time memorable and take your time..warm her up good. Other tips...never discuss problems in the bedroom. Never go to bed with an unsettled argument. The idea is to give her the impression that she is very secure in your arms and that you will always be there for her and that you need her so badly...and you could not imagine life without her. And mean it.
Posted Mon Jul 13, 2009 07:46 AM
I have got her into a poker night during the week which she does (loves the game now), so I cut her as much slack as I can.
I guess I need to work on letting her unwinde, or get her out for a big night out and many drinks. One thing I know never give up, keep believing.
Im thinking of saving up the money to send her off to London to visit family, maybe that might spark something, seleflessness it can hurt at times.