Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 07:48 PM
So I'd made arrangements with ''my girl'' to go on a fairly long ride on my bike last saturday. She was heading to a house party friday night (not my crowd or my scene) She did promise me she'd be up bright and early ready to ride. I get a text from her Sat morning asking if I could pick her up a couple of hours later...she'd slept in and such. No problem....we get on the bike, and spend a good part of the afternoon on the road.
As evening approaches we decide to stay in the area we're riding in and get a hotel for the night. After a quick bite we end up in bed. It had been a hot day...we were both perhaps a little sweaty and all from sitting on the bike for so long...but are both pretty comfortable with each other..that way. Showers were skipped and we ended up on the bed. I kiss my way down her stomach and find my way between her legs. I catch a scent at first...then stronger. I know her, know her really well, know her scent, wether it be fresh from the shower or after a long day. This wasn't it. It, I swear, was the faint smell of a condom.
I was actually kinda confused about all this...and we carried on with the night. But the next day it started to eat away at me. I kept asking myself...what else could it be? But I've smelled that smell before, I've used a condom, then gone down on a woman after the fact. Its not a smell I think can be duplicated by anything else...is it?
I asked her a little bit about her night....lots of drinks...hung out with friends...nothing more. I let it go....for a few days. I couldn't let this rest. So I asked her about what I experienced. She didn't act guilty, nor did she seem insulted...which I thought she might. I mean..I had a hard time even saying ''hey sweetie, ya smelled a little strange the other night!'' She basically acted as she was as suprised and confused as me...no explanation.
Long story....I think she had sex with someone else friday nite....I remember a conversation awhile ago...where she told me she didn't react well to condoms...scent wise...who does? Even after a shower in the a.m the smell could still be there.
Your thoughts people? Coincedence? was it just a long day in the saddle producing a scent I've only ever experienced when indeed a condom was involved? How do you call someone on something after they have so denied it. Am I being a gullable sucker if I just let this go?
Posted Wed Jul 15, 2009 10:30 PM
If that's your only thing, I wouldn't worry about it, but if you know of something else, I might bring it up to her.
Posted Thu Jul 16, 2009 05:57 AM
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Posted Thu Jul 16, 2009 07:34 PM
I dunno what other latex materials could have come into close contact with her in that area, but i also believe you need more behind you before you accuse her of anything so serious.
I agree though, kinda strange. What material is your bike seat? lol
Posted Thu Jul 16, 2009 08:11 PM
Either that or just dump her and get a new one. Yes this might sound harsh, but I'm giving you a guy's perspective that has been there, done that, in an almost exact same situation.
Posted Thu Jul 16, 2009 08:42 PM
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Posted Thu Jul 16, 2009 09:15 PM
I like Q
Posted Thu Jul 16, 2009 10:14 PM
Like everyone else said you know if there is something else that makes you think that she did something. If not sniff your own seat and see if it reminds you of anything. What to do?????
Posted Fri Jul 17, 2009 09:30 PM
It may have been the seat...never encountered that before though.
I did talk to her about it...which wasn't an easy thing to bring up. Based on her response, my gut feeling, and how well I know her....I'm going to let it go.
I'll never know for sure...but I need to trust her and carry on.