Guys who don't care about sex?
Posted Sun Jul 19, 2009 07:03 PM
Anyway... her BF and her have kind of a strange relationship. She likes sex a lot however she says that her BF NEVER initiates anything and that she has to get things going every time they have sex. He even tells her sometimes that he doesn't like it when she touches him and when she asks why he says "I'm not really a touchy person." My jaw dropped when she told me this because she's a soccer player and has a fantastic body and he just doesn't seem to care. It's almost impossible for me to believe. All I can say is WTF?? This isn't an isolated incident either because one of her friends is in the same situation with a BF who simply won't have sex AT ALL. Neither of these guys are religious and both of their GFs are at least relatively good looking so as a guy I'm just... baffled.
So has anyone ever heard of anything like this?? Since when have guys started turning down their GFs for sex this is a new concept to me lol.
Posted Sun Jul 19, 2009 07:17 PM
Posted Sun Jul 19, 2009 08:06 PM
Posted Mon Jul 20, 2009 08:25 PM
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 07:48 AM
if the relationship started out with no sex because he didnt want it, there wouldnt be a relationship for very long.
just every once in a while is understandable, but it does hurt my feelings when my bf turns me down.
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 04:45 PM
Sometimes I think people should have sex drive barometers attached to their foreheads so that people know who to go for and who to avoid.
Sex drive issues just don't suck for at least one partner. Sometimes the girl gets the raw end of the deal.
Posted Wed Jul 22, 2009 02:21 AM
Posted Wed Jul 22, 2009 04:09 AM
He has a high sex drive, but I have a really high sex drive. I'm on all the time, so I initiate a little more.
When he turns me down, it doesn't register at first. When I "give up" I just walk around the house taking off clothing one by one, bending over to pick something up (so he can have a look at that ass he loves), and play with my own body (fingering my pussy, licking my titties.) He'll be on top of me within half an hour.
I'll admit it though, after the third time in the day, it doesn't work.. lol.