Fat people unite
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 12:10 AM
Anyway, allow me to introduce myself.
I am a 2x year old male, who "recently" lost his virginity to his wonderful wife to be (who happens to be 4x, and no, her name is not "Stella" or "Mrs. Cougar")
Here's the issue; I'm 360 lbs (5'9"), and shes 200 lbs (5'3").
Our bed is the type with a wooden box frame with drawers underneath, so edge of the bed ideas are not very feasible. She would have to hang off the bed, and I constantly stub my toes on the edge of the bed. Ow.
Positions that we have been able to work with:
Modified missionary, her legs hanging over my shoulders, sometimes reverse cowgirl (not as enjoyable for her). We have tried doggie, but her legs are longer than mine, and ... she's too high. I know, I'm bad at this.
I've read this thread already.
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 05:01 AM
Till then, you might be better off on the floor with pillows, comforter etc. Missionary may be your best option.
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 09:34 AM
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 09:42 AM
i also don't want to be rude or intend to hurt your feelings.
i think that sex can be a motivating factor in losing weight- the ability to get into all sorts of positions and really have fun in bed.
i also think if you find 1 position that works well for the time being, you should try to have sex as often as possible- a nightly routine- because it may be the best form of exercise you can get, go as long as you can, missionary burns 600 calories per hour.
and losing weight will increase your size (perception wise/ability to penetrate deeper).
i am trying to GAIN some weight so im not a disgusting-sick-looking twig. i wish i could take about 30 pounds from you, im underweight and my girlfriend is way self concious because my belly is flatter than hers.
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 12:04 PM
Use the rest of the furniture in the house. Kitchen/bathroom counters, sofa, chairs, showers, whatever you can think of.
Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 01:54 PM
One of the positions I like is "sideways spooning". This is when your girl lies in a kind of fetal position on her side on the bed, and then you lie in the same way behind her (kind of resembling two spoons). This position allows us guys to put our goods right next to our girls' regardless of how much taller/shorter they are, and also allows both male and female to "relax" as they are lying down, and nobody has to be "doing all the work" like reverse cowgirl. I like this position also because it allows the girl to raise her top leg, which lets her or her partner rub her clit during intercourse, as well as allows kissing while she takes it from behind, which for me personally is VERY sexy.
I hope you can try this out and tell us how it works for you, as I am sure all of us here at SF are more than willing to "go back to the drawing board" and think up other positions even if it means we have to have sex for days!!! And again, I welcome you to the boards and hope to see you around, as we have a really good family here and are always looking to add more brothers and sisters!!!!