Posted Tue Jul 21, 2009 07:09 AM
I'm gay and ive been with this guy all through high school and we are very sexually and emotionally attatched. We have this friend thats a little older than us that we want to get involved in sex and my boyfriend is really excited and eager about doing it (its adorable...in a kinky way?) and i really want to aswell but im worried about possitions and how its going to turn out.
I'm a jelous guy and i love my partner very very much and i dont want to be upset or angry afterwards bacause i felt left out or become paranoid he's cheating of likes my friend better. I cant help being possesive. I'm not creepily so, i just really care.
I'm kinda insecure but mainly its that the thought of loosing the guy i love scares me fucking shitless and makes me get tears in my eyes.
I've been the dominant one during sex so far in me and my boyfriends relationship but my friend is taller, more agressive than i am and im certain the dominant kind. What are some good possitions or things i can do so i feel like the night is about me and my boyfriend and dont get all stroppy of jelous (haha, im such a kid).
Mostly, i want to know that its ME causing my boyfriend unbearable pleassure and not my friend. He's an art student and is very attractive and interesting.
ARGH! love is like exams, incredibly stressful and fucking hard work, it all sounds so cheesy.
Never cliche though, haha, next time ill tell you tales of being tied to the bed naked, the time our coffee addiction got the best of us and we put two packets of coffee in the hot tub and had caffine sex or when my boyfriend gave me a hand job under the table when we had dinner with my family.
what a long message.
Posted Thu Jul 23, 2009 09:53 AM
You can start with the other guy going down on both of you while you kiss and touch each other. And then you and your partner can repay him by teaming up and going down on him. Trying this can prove to yourself that you are comfortable enough to try other things.
You will be surprised at how hot it is to watch your partner kissing another. My gf had basically the same feeling as you. But was reassured completely after our first experience. She said it was so hot seeing the other girl kiss my neck and loved blowing me with the help of her friend.
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