what does it mean?
Posted Tue Aug 04, 2009 10:31 PM
Posted Tue Aug 04, 2009 10:37 PM
If you want to know how your ex feels, ask her, preferrably in person. Don't make a big deal out of it. Just casually ask if she still has feelings for you. That is, if you think you want to try things out with her again. I would first decide who you want more. If you want your ex, you can ask her how she feels, and if you don't want her then don't ask. Worst case scenario is that your ex doesn't want more than a friendship with you and you still have the other girl waiting in the wings.
Well, looking at later replies, seems like everyone is really paranoid or I'm just a sucker, heh.
Posted Wed Aug 05, 2009 09:11 AM
Posted Wed Aug 05, 2009 09:45 AM
she is playing games indeed, dont let her hurt you bro.
the fact that she mentioend the sex wasnt there means she might have been lookin for a quick hookup, which will hurt you even more.
ex's are ex's for a reason, she was quick to move on and replace you with another cock.
Posted Wed Aug 05, 2009 06:20 PM
yep. ignore your ex 100%.
Posted Thu Aug 06, 2009 02:36 AM
kidding, of course.
seriously though, she's probably just confused and seeking answers from someone she trusts so that she can feel better about her difficult situation. i don't think she's asking you as anything; you're just there and willing.
stop and think about yourself for a moment. is the new girl good to you? she might uplift you to a place you didn't know existed. are you willing to risk that for someone who hurt you in the past and likely won't be what you're hoping for in the future?
Posted Fri Aug 07, 2009 12:20 PM
so I would walk with caution my friend
Posted Sat Aug 08, 2009 02:35 PM
I've had some very intimate conversations with an ex in the past.
Think a lot of it depends on why you broke up.
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 09:11 PM
I agree, if you ignore her and she doubles her efforts to contact you, she might want you back, but it's only a theory.
Posted Mon Aug 17, 2009 02:02 PM
Posted Mon Aug 17, 2009 02:06 PM
Do not respond, move on with your new girl...Maybe your ex heard about it and is jealous.
If her new boyfriend that she ditched you for is not what she was thinking and she is reconsidering and having second thoughts, it's not your problem, you're not her boxing sack.
Posted Tue Aug 18, 2009 06:18 AM
Posted Wed Aug 19, 2009 07:03 AM
i agree with this!