how to make a guy to ask me out
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 02:55 PM
Over the years I noticed him staring at me, smiling etc. Lately for the past year or so he talks to me more than before, 95% is not job related.he also helped me a few times in resolving some issues I had.
Some people I talked to told me that he might be afraid to ask me out because of sexual harasment law, but I know he dated another coworker in the past, so I don't believe that is the problem.
I don't know what to do, I did give some signs, but I am not the type of girl to ask a guy out. I've never done it and I don't want to change that.
The signs I gave him were like smiling and look at him when he was passing in front of my office. Also it happened about 3 time that he softly touched my finger when I was holding a piece of paper showing it to him so he can read it.
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 04:10 PM
Over the years I noticed
If you are quite sure he likes you, better ask him out yourself or, at this rate, he'll ask you out at his retirement party.
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 05:23 PM
But honestly tho, I dont think dating a co worker is a good idea. It will be awkward if something happens. Unless you guys dont meet much.
Dating a co-workers is like dating a sorority girl, bad idea. Unless you are planning on quitting the job eventually
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 05:51 PM
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 05:59 PM
Maybe he does like you but has thought about the "dating a co-worker" thing and let it go..
just another thought for ya
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 08:49 PM
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:21 PM
I honestly don't think i'll ever be in the position to ask any girl out again.
Posted Mon Aug 10, 2009 11:31 PM
dating a sorority girl is a good idea, depending on what sorority and how much actual "dating" is going on, if you catch my drift...
dating a co-worker is a terrible idea, unless you are going to marry the guy. you could also just ask him out, not that big a deal.
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 05:51 PM
Digg6 your idea is the best. I though about that, but I can't think about these questions. What I tyalk with this guy is about a variety of subjects: family, work, jokes. I didn't find the oportunity (yet) to ask thsese kind of questions.
I can't really walk straight to him and ask him out.
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 06:10 PM
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 06:21 PM
that is not a bad idea, but I only see him in the first 2-3 hours, then we have different things to do, I don't really work so much in my office. I think if I would see him a few times in 8 hours it would be easier for me to invite him out.
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 06:26 PM
ask him to have lunch with you
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 09:21 PM
It's exactly what I am "afraid" of. He doesn't dare to ask
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 10:00 PM
I think you'll get a response.
Posted Tue Aug 11, 2009 11:15 PM
Posted Wed Aug 12, 2009 01:32 PM
Just tell him, "Hey about 5 of us from work are going to hang out and have a few drinks after work at such and such resturant, you're more than welcome to meet us there."
If you say it that way, it doesn't put any pressure on him, and it also doesn't sound like you're asking him out. You are simply telling him that he is more than welcome to meet a group of work friends at a restaurant and bar.
It takes pressure off of you too because you won't be the only one there.
Since there will be alcohol served there maybe there's a possibility that he will tell you what he thinks about you and get a little physical.
Posted Wed Aug 12, 2009 04:16 PM