How do i make my girlfriend orgasm?
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 02:51 PM
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 03:03 PM
You will need to find her clit, which would be a whole lot easier if you weren't trying to reach down her pants. That's just balling up the whole works.
For God's sake...be gentle!
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 05:57 PM
1) Be very gentle.
2) When stimulating her pussy and she's edging closer to orgasm, you have to be careful to maintain an unvarying rhythm.
Between orgasms however it's good to alternate and do combos. Example: fingering her with one hand, while rubbing her clit with the other and licking her labia and occasionally replacing fingers with tongue (the occasional licking/biting of the inner thighs is good too), preferably at different rates--very easy if you're a drummer.
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 06:35 PM
Do not expect orgasm for the first time on her.
Posted Wed Aug 26, 2009 08:07 PM
As for virgins, fingers--not to mention your shaft--are probably not in the cards right off (unless done extremely slowly and with lube or lots of spit). Sure you can force it but in doing so, may desensitize her to fucking in future (i.e. intercourse will not be as pleasurable for her).
Posted Fri Aug 28, 2009 05:21 PM
Posted Fri Aug 28, 2009 05:34 PM
I acually did not know that, good information!
Posted Fri Aug 28, 2009 05:48 PM
In fact, any part of her will get numb if you focus on that area for too long. But yeah, the clit is hyper-sensitive so intense stimulation will blow the fine circuits--you should see what a feather can do!
Posted Fri Aug 28, 2009 06:38 PM
Posted Fri Aug 28, 2009 09:24 PM
Use lube - that's very important.
Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 12:25 AM
VERY IMPORTANT!^^^..Another thing..although this may be embarrassing for at first, because it sure was for me..encourage her to play with it herself to find what she likes. When I was first figuring this all out for myself...I would masturbate alone..then when we would have sex, I slowly got my self to take his hand and move it the way i liked!..now that is not necessary anymore..he knows exactly what i like lol...Well Good Luck!!!