Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 04:43 AM
Once I'm at that point, what am I supposed to do from there if my goal is to FUCK the girl. I just never find it appropriate to whip out the condom and be like "hey baby I'm gonna fuck you, we just met".
How did it work for you?
PS I'm not a virgin, but I've barely had any sex and haven't in SO long. Also, girls don't blow me either so advice on that would be helpful as well.
Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 05:33 AM
I just never find it appropriate to whip out the condom and be like "hey baby I'm gonna fuck you, we just met".
And rightly so. Somewhere in your life, you were taught some decent values...and you are not comfortable with one night stands. If she is ready for sex that quick, she has probably been around the world. Sex for sex's sake fits some guys lifestyle, and sex videos convince a guy it's ok, but apparently your values are not compromised. You are waiting for a quality long lasting relationship where there is trust, honesty and love. Being cautious with girls will help keep you disease free and will help you make proper decisions when you really do get serious. So that is not so weird!
Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 05:41 AM
Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 12:15 PM
best thing to do is ask, even if rejected at least you tried its not like its gonna go anywhere else or you like the girl right? just go in for it.
Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 12:54 PM
If she's not waiting in line back stage, we have two scenarios:
She's your girlfriend.
You have a discussion while not in the middle oof your routine.
She's just with you for fun:
Start talking dirty and tell her what you're about to do to her and gauge her response.
Say, "Let me grab a condom.", and gauge her response.
Start undressing her and yourself and gauge her response.
Now you may be asking some about when you have the OK and the time delay in the action.
Get her involved, condoms can be put on a penis by a female as well or work together.
Practice putting them on alone so you can do it quicker or while still paying attention to her or be able to do it one handed while the other hand still roams.
My friend, as soon as you get an answer to your "How do I get her to give me a BJ?" question please leak it to all news agencies in print, on tv, and on the web. The answer as it stands now is: You ain't getting it if she doesn't want to give it.".
Posted Sat Aug 29, 2009 11:02 PM
My guess if she's rubbing your dick then she wants it. You still have yet to get to third base much less home. When I get into a situation with a new girl my goal is to touch all the spots and slowly progress as far as I can. Hopefully she'll be really turned on, and want me as much as I want her. I'm a guy, we want into their pants. If she says no then I in no way proceed any further. Respect the boundaries, but at least find them.
Posted Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:00 AM
But, you don't do both third base AND home. You pick one or the other, right? I feel like if I went down on the girl, she'd probably not want the sex because going down on her would be enough.
Posted Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:16 PM
That's so naive, it's almost cute. But seriously, oral is foreplay for women. When I cum on someone's tongue, I crave to be penetrated. It's a great start, but more often than not, it's not the whole event.
Posted Sun Aug 30, 2009 01:02 PM
Lay them on their back, get bin between there legs and continue making out like that. Start the kissing and biting on her neck...and after a lil dry hump session go for the kill.