Hmm, never had someone so...neutral before
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:21 AM
she still acts young, i want to say shes like a 13 year old at times lmao. she just too innocent.
which brings me to the topic of the post.
She doesnt seem to get horny, turned on, ANYTHING. i have kissed, caressed and otherwise played with every part of her body except behind her panties. i have rubbed her through her panties (she sleeps over occasionally), and have had my hand in her pantie on one of those occasions, but i am not 100% sure if she was awake. I mean, she was coherent, but it doesnt mean she was awake. anyways, even after rubbing her through her panties, kissing her body, licking/sucking her nipples etc. i have yet to feel any wetness down under, and usually when i start doing aforementioned activities, she will start talking about stuff that is so not even relevant to what is going on (like something that happened at work or something) that i usually just give up because it seems to have no effect. Even if im caressing her, rubbing her bum or playing with a tit as were kissing, once in awhile she will really start heating up, but out of the blue she will stop only 10 seconds after starting getting heated. sometimes she will pull me into her neck afterwards, but most of the time ill move to her neck/belly, etc anyway. and work my way back up, but there is just no heat on her side. its almost as if she is paying no attention to what i am doing.
she says that she likes that i kiss her and caress her and i 100% believe that, but she doesnt get worked up even a little. I SERIOUSLY doubt she has ever even masturbated, i honestly dont think she knows what she should be getting worked up for.
Ive got no problem waiting for her, but i dont know what to do. i dont want to be pushy, but it is blatantly obvious that she isnt going to make any first steps.
What you Think?
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:53 AM
Not immediately get excited for sex.
Maybe you can ask her what she like you to do on her body. Tell her also what you like her to do on yours.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 01:09 AM
Best thing you can do.
If you truly care and love her. talk with her. see if this is what she wants, people want different things. She just might not be into it one bit.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 02:54 AM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 07:04 AM
and a virgin,,,
but i yet have to experiemnt with her but shes feelin me
so ima try ....wish me good luck
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:26 PM
Posted Wed Sep 16, 2009 10:28 PM
She has never had an orgasm, she didnt even know that could happen without penetration doesnt masturbate (obviously)
it must not be that she doesnt get heated up, she just doesnt know what she wants, or even what she has been missing, so she has no such reaction.
shes definitely a bit exploratory though, we finished a movie, i flipped the TV off and started making out, then she tells me to sit up a sec......off came her shirt, then i went and got a candle and off came the rest of the top. w00t!
its weird, it isnt that shes been that heavily sheltered by her mother, in fact, her brother is the exact opposite of her in these aspects. her mom is actually really cool, and not "the overseer".
Posted Sat Sep 19, 2009 09:28 AM
Posted Sun Sep 20, 2009 02:44 PM
I mean in the most sincere way possible, but if you're thinking that she will sprout into some kind of sex goddess one of these days, you're in for tragic surprise. IMO you're wasting your time. She needs to have time to find her own sexual self and if you are experienced expecting many of the things that are written about in other threads from this forum...then you better be more patient than a kindergarten teacher for YEARS to come.
I have learned that women need to understand themselves sexually before they can become a decent partner to someone with experience. It is going to take a LOT of talking and experimenting (more talking than experimenting) to get to a point where she is emotionally ready to join in a fulfilling experience with you.
Personally, I'd move on and let her figure it out on her own. But it's up to you dude, if you don't mind spending the time...then go for it, be her teacher.
Words of wisdom...
Never marry a virgin, unless you are one yourself.
Posted Sun Sep 20, 2009 06:21 PM
Posted Sun Sep 20, 2009 09:15 PM
haha very true:winner:
Posted Mon Sep 21, 2009 03:53 AM
if its gona happen its gona happen budd
im in same situation
i got me a 22 virgin female
and she aint buddgin
ur more lucky dan me u get to rubb n tuch n feel her pussy
i cant lmaooo
shes too omg wtf u doin mode
so a lil by lil ima move in wit kissin n touchin
gainin more territory
one spot everyday
Posted Mon Sep 21, 2009 01:07 PM
Im not expecting a sex goddess overnight, hell im not too experienced myself
I do expect that after we experiment a bit, she will turn out to be quite a handful though, i just get that vibe from her. this past week we were down to our bottom underwear only, in candlelight (candles rock), makin out, groping and grinding. she'd pull me into her and push me around a little, so i doubt she will be remotely boring in that aspect.
like i said, the more i think about it, i just think its due to her exxtreme lack of experience that i dont get the kind of response i am used to. She hasnt ever been pleasured, so she doesnt know what shes missing, and her body doesnt appropriately respond or react to the situation lol.
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2009 09:38 PM
got her off without any penetration, figured one step at a time. she loved it, and so did I.