please help...need advice...please.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 05:35 AM
here is my situation...
i've been seeing this girl recently i used to date 3 years go (it didnt work out due to bad timing really) We remained friends, and now we're having sex and hanging out a lot. we kinda said we didnt want anything serious RIGHT NOW but we're not going into this close minded. well, this has been going on for about 2 1/2 months. now im starting to really just fall for her hard. she isnt the kind to talk about her feelings and i am. so i obviously want more. and i know we agreed on nothing serious atm, but she's starting to call me babe and baby and now she'll call me to come over just to cuddle and spend the night, instead of sex all the time. i asked her if she's feeling closer to me, she says "yes of course i am" i feel like we've both grown and changed over the past 3 years. im gonna be honest, i loved her then and i love her now more than i can say. how do i transition this into a relationship? how do i know she's ready? i feel so strongly for her that i feel sad right now that we're not an official couple. help please. thank u!
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 06:05 AM
ma fuck buddy says she juss wanted to fuck
but we became fuck buddys
she calls me love u and baby
n well we act like we bf n gf and i fel for her
we in da same boat
but im keepin ma feelings on lock down and im tryna get rid of em cuz i know she can switch her feelings off n on like a light switch
i honestly dnt know what to tell u
but to say i can relate
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:27 AM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 11:50 AM
Pondering and worrying yourself is not the way to go.
3 years is along time, if she says sex only, better knwo it knwo than later, when you'll be even more atached.
She may be thinking about a relationship, but if you don't ASK her, you won't know.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:00 PM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:03 PM
There is no right time...
Just sit her down and talk. The time is always right for matters like that.
Well, unless she comes home pissed from work or a taxi driver almost hit her or her best friend just got fired/divorced, lol...you knwo what I mean, though.
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:06 PM
Posted Mon Sep 14, 2009 12:10 PM
I lost her once 3 years ago and I definitely don't want to feel the sharp blade of heartbreak in my chest again. This girl means a lot to me. I need to just be honest.
thank you juliads and hard snake.