Need advice on how to last longer
Posted Thu Nov 10, 2005 08:06 PM
A few days ago she totally came on to me. I didnít expect that but I wasnít upset. Sheís like 40 but sheís hot. Iíd seen her by the pool out back in her swimsuit and I swear she looks good. So of course when she hit on me I was all for it. We ended up fucking on her bed and the woman is a screamer too. None of my girlfriends have ever sounded like that during sex. Then yesterday we were watching TV and she started slowly rubbing my leg, and we ended up fucking on her bed again. Sheís great and all, but the thing Iím concerned about is sheís kind of demanding. Sheís not one of those older woman whoís all in to teaching the younger guy about sex. And sheís pretty up front about stuff. She told me she likes having sex with me, but she said I need to last longer before I cum. She said she's vaginally orgasmic and gets off best when the guy lasts awhile. I didn't think I was doing too bad, I mean I usually last 5 or 10 minutes in her, but she says she wants longer. So here I am with this totally great situation but I need to figure out how to hold off my orgasm longer when Iím fucking her. Sheís not the kind of woman who would have a hard time finding a guy to have sex with and I think if I canít satisfy her she might start looking somewhere else instead. What I've going for me is I'm pretty well built and my cock is above average. But I need to figure out how to last longer if I want things to continue. Any suggestions are definitely welcome.
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2005 03:13 AM
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2005 03:08 PM
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2005 03:29 PM
Another thing is that she needs to get involved more. Even if she's vaginally orgasmic, the two of you might want to stimulate her in other ways first, so that she's closer to orgasm when you focus on vaginal stimulation.
A final thought: I'm sure that this is an interesting situation you've gotten into, but she sounds a little rigid. Ultimately, she might be worth losing.
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2005 06:06 PM
Condoms , desenitising creams & maturbation training will help prolong your "Playtime" . Post wich methods you need more info on & I'll refine my response "Good Hunting" Hello & Welcome to SF.com !
Posted Fri Nov 11, 2005 08:55 PM
Posted Sat Nov 12, 2005 11:27 AM
In the middle of all this a cool (and weird) thing happened yesterday. I went to happy hour with some friends and I came back to the house a little drunk on 4-5 beers. She was there when I got in and one thing led to another and we ended up having sex again. But the thing is, it musta been the alcohol because after all the foreplay and stuff, once I was inside her I lasted like 20 mins. I also tried to hold out by doing a lot of grinding and I only started really thrusting when she was close to having an orgasm just to get her over the top. Anyway she got off a few times and afterwards she said it was ďphenomenal.Ē So that was cool and made me feel pretty good but it made me think more about trying to last longer normally. I donít think I want to drink 4-5 beers every time we have sex. I mean itís not like sheís rude about it or anything but I know next time we do it if I havenít been drinking, I probably wonít last as long as she wants. But I think Iím getting some good ideas here so Iíve got something to work with.
By the way, Mari thanks for posting your photo; if thatís you youíre gorgeous. About your last comment, I guess she is sorta rigid but I donít think I want to get rid of her. Weíre not in a ďrelationshipĒ or anything and overall itís a pretty hot situation. I mean, itís just the 2 of us in the house and sheís 39 but she has a killer body and sheís really into sex. Yeah sheís kinda fussy but right now I definitely want to try to keep the sex thing going if I can.
Iím still working on lasting longer so Iím still open to any more suggestions from anyone.
Q, Iíve heard about desensitizing cream but I donít know anything about it. Iím trying the ďmasturbation trainingĒ but Iím also looking for ideas that will help me last longer right away. I was also online reading about some more thrusting techniques that help you last. Yeah sometimes I can get a second wind but that kinda interrupts the mood cause we use a condom. If you got some info on that cream thatíd be great. Thanks again.
Posted Sat Nov 12, 2005 02:37 PM