Posted Sun Sep 27, 2009 05:36 PM
He came round to mine with a few other people a couple of weeks ago when I was moving to another department (we hadn't worked closely together but were in the same floor). We got on really well and at the end of the night, when everyone had left mine, I ended up going back to his.
To cut a long story short we ended the night cuddled up in bed together. Nothing sexual happened, other than a bit of groping anyway, but it was a really nice night. We've since seen each other a few times and have had sex and done other sexual stuff.
He's a really nice guy and I should be really into him, but all that I could think about this morning was my ex boyfriend. He was my first real love but recently moved back home after graduating. We'd lived in separate cities before that but had managed to see each other a couple of times a week. This was just too far to keep that up though.
We agreed when he left (which we both knew from the start that he was going to do) that we wouldn't contact each other. He ended up emailing me and saying that he was coming up this way. After some debate in my head, I agreed to meet.
When we met it was like he had never been away. We instantly felt really comfortable together again and ended up having sex. I don't regret it but it's left me thinking that I'd really like to continue seeing him somehow. Before we'd met again I'd almost (but never quite) managed to get over him and had a few dates with other guys (nothing too heavy).
I'm in my final year at uni and also work part time so I've got a lot on at the moment. Part of me's thinking that maybe it would work just seeing him every month or so but another part thinks that I would be better to forget him completely and forget guys altogether for a while until I'm over him. I don't want to mess the guy from work about (it's far from a serious relationship).
Has anyone been in a similar situation and what would you suggest I do? Thanks in advance for any advice.
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Posted Tue Sep 29, 2009 12:06 PM
A trusting relatrionship which could turn into a solid as rock lifetime marriage and togtherness
A distance relationship where you sleep around and will regret later in life and may never find a true love.
Single life playing around hoping to find what you want.
3 options, i know which id want. Happiness is all that matters, money, distance and other people dont.
think about your needs and what YOU want, just make sure it isnt going to be something you regret.
Posted Tue Sep 29, 2009 06:57 PM
I'm seeing my ex tomorrow. Will see what happens and take it from there.