I NEED SERIOUS HELP!!!
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 01:29 AM
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 01:50 AM
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 05:27 AM
I think I'll keep quiet on this one! :eusa_naug
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 07:17 AM
Wow, you guys have been trying hard!
Maybe too hard, mate. Sometimes the more intense you approach this situation the more pressure you are putting on each other.
Just relax and concentrate on kissing, petting, foreplay, and it will come (no pun intended).
Taking her from behind is a good place to start as is that old favourite missionary!!
BUT take it slow, loosen up and try to put your girlfriend at ease.
If her legs aren't opening wide enough then my guess is she might be a little intimidated ( perfectly natural)
Best of luck, mate, and enjoy the practice.
I'm still trying to get it right
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 11:00 AM
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 11:31 AM
The man can either lie flat on the woman if he is not too heavy in weight and it is not uncomfortable for her, or he can support some or all of his weight on his elbows, hands or knees (sometimes the weight of the man on them can restrict a woman's pelvic movement) .
The woman can wrap her legs around the man's hips, back, or over his shoulders, the higher her legs the deeper the man may penetrate with his penis .
The woman can use her hands freely to caress the man or stimulate her clitoris as the man has limited use of his hands, but it is a good position for being able to see each other and for kissing and to caressing.
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 11:36 AM
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 12:19 PM
When she's on her knees in front of you...legs spread slightly...the magic muffin should be more then available to you...
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 12:27 PM
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 02:30 PM
Sorry Q , I don't think my brain was hardwired for anything!!!
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 02:54 PM
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 03:10 PM
Trust me to be part of the 1%
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 03:20 PM
Do you really believe she won't know where it goes?
You and this girl need to step back for a moment. You need to explore each other more before you have penis-in-vagina sex. Get down there and get intimate with her genital area. Have her relax and spread her legs a bit while you look closely at things, and feel them with your fingers. If she really doesn't know what's what on and in her own body, then have her do some exploring too. It's a very nice activity in itself. Have fun with it.
Posted Sun Nov 27, 2005 07:01 PM
Also, have you done any oral with eachother? That may be a good build up for both of you, instead of jumping into sex. My girlfriend and I did nothing but oral and using hands for like 1.5 weeks, then we got into sex. Might help out. The key though is to relax, if neither of you can relax, you won't stay up very long, and she probably won't orgasm. Its that important.