Virgin, having sex soon. Help me out please!
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 02:27 AM
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 02:34 AM
Also, wut if I get a little tipsy?
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 03:10 AM
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 04:22 AM
My first time I lasted about 2-3 minutes and I came inside her and never did stop pumping her, just kept going. I got softer after the first nut, but was excited enough to get rock hard again about five minutes later and I lasted about 10 minutes the 2nd nut. I kept going a few minutes after that.
Whole thing lasted about 20 minutes. Do NOT let her blow you first, unless you tell her you want to get a blowjob and cum first before sex. Then, you can do oral on her until you are hard again.
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 08:21 AM
If she's a virgin, she certainly does not know that she likes it kinky, as you described. She make like the idea, but reality can be different. If she says no, you had better stop. If resisting is part of her fantasy, set a code word that means to stop.
Don't be afraid. Everybody goes through it (and for those few who don't... I certainly feel sorry for!). My first wasn't bad. I think that I was really ready for it, and that made the difference. I was already educated on the topic and had overcome my conservative upbringing. When I felt ready (translation: when I knew I would enjoy it rather than feel guilty about it), I went out and found a guy.
You're not going to get thorough answers here. It's too complicated a topic and there is already plenty of material out there. A few tips, though:
Pay attention to her cues. Do IMMEDIATELY what she asks, as it can be painful and difficult for women the first time.
You're 19. If lasting is a problem, I would bet that you can just masturbate a bit before sex/foreplay, and still have no problem with an erection during the sex.
Save the kinky for later. Go slow. Explore each others' bodies. Talk your way through it - how things feel, what you like and don't like. It never ceases to amaze me how little many men know about women's bodies. And the ones that do know.. they're the ones I want in my bed.
Use a condom. Read the directions. They're 98% (or so) effective if you follow the directions perfectly, but on average, only 80%.
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 08:58 AM
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 09:28 AM
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 05:11 PM
I have no clue what the fuck I'm doing. Help me out.
You know she's a virgin that likes it rough and likes being held down?
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 01:43 AM
Posted Thu Oct 22, 2009 01:49 AM