What is my fetish? Skip to bottom line if you want...
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 12:25 PM
-If my girlfriend hooks up with one guy repeatedly, who she has feelings on the side for, that sort of has a point, so it doesn't turn me on too much (although it does a little).
-If my girlfriend strips in front of a bunch of guys at a party, or sucks a guys dick because she is bored, or fucks some guy in front of a crowd of people because her friend told her to, those things are pointless so they turn me on more.
The SLUTTIER and MORE POINTLESS the better.
Girlfriend: I'm going to a party and I'm gonna try to suck at least 3 dicks.
Me: Okay have fun!
It also turns me on if the girl isn't telling me about it, but doesn't really go through great lengths to have me not find out, and doesn't really care all that much when I do. Not because she doesn't love me, but because she doesn't see it as a very big deal so she wouldn't expect me to get that mad.
Me: My friend sent me this video of you stripping for a bunch of guys at a party! WTF!
Girlfriend: I'm really sorry...Can you forgive me?
Other small turn ons I have are girls who swear, smoke, flip me off, harm small animals (just kidding), basically girls that don't have any morals.
What is this fetish I have? I have found 3 that are close but not quite what I am looking for. Those are:
1. Cuckolding. This tends to be for guys who feel inadequate so they are turned on by seeing their wife/girlfriend get pleasured by someone who can do it. I don't have this problem...I am dominant in bed and I have a big 8 inch penis.
2. Candaulism (a sexual practice or fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.) This does turn me on but does not include actual sexual relationships. Plus, I want her to expose herself behind my back as well.
3. Compersion (Compersion is a term used by practitioners of polyamory to describe the experience of taking pleasure that one's partner is experiencing pleasure, even if the source of their pleasure is other than yourself.) I used to think this was it, hence my screen name, but further research implies that this is not really a fetish, but more of just a lack of jealousy. Plus, being a complete slut for no reason isn't really the type of pleasure that compersion implies.
So, bottom line, what is the name for a fetish for having one's girlfriend have no morals?
Posted Mon Oct 19, 2009 05:32 PM
Posted Tue Oct 20, 2009 01:47 AM
As for you having a fetish, I think it is more of an understanding of pleasure. You get off on the fact that she goes outs with "Random" guys to preform these acts. But you get jealous(Or at least that is what I get from you) when she has feelings for these people.
Be Careful! As while the village bicycle can catch many things if she isn't being careful. Not trying to be insulting, but you wanting her to pleasure multiple people behind your back is something that will portray that image.
Posted Tue Oct 20, 2009 10:15 AM
And anyway, it's not about her being the "village bicycle". I just want a girl with no morals who does tons of slutty things because it's no big deal. That includes more than just fucking as many guys as possible. Tons of girls I know do that...my thoughts go beyond that.
Posted Tue Oct 20, 2009 12:09 PM
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Posted Tue Oct 20, 2009 07:56 PM
Anyway, the reason I posted this is because I want to know if anyone else has this fetish or if there is a name for it. I KNOW it exists with more guys than just me. Here is proof:
And there are millions of stories like these online. This is the kind of stuff I am into. It seems to be an abnormal attitude but still REALLY common online...does anyone have any information on this at all?