Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:04 PM
I've never had sex but, I fool around with girls i've been with. When I masturbate it only takes me a few minutes before I cum, and maybe thats cause i just go to town on myself. I figured this short stamina would transfer over to when I was fooling around with some one. When i'm getting a hand job or a blow job, it takes waaaaaay longer for me to cum and i'm not sure why. Don't get me wrong, I like lasting longer when some one else is there. I wasnt sure If I'd last the same time as a bj with sex or not. I was thinking that maybe its because the girls go way slower on me than if i was by myself. But for some reason feels way better than if i went slow haha.
So, anyways, my question.
Will I last just as long during sex as I do during bj's and hj's?
Thanx for your replies
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:38 PM
variables are added but it doesn't mean you'll be even quicker. i can rub it out in like 30 seconds sometimes. sometimes sex lasts that long too- but sometimes it lasts an hour.
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:39 PM
Sex on the other hand is another issue. I think that sex feels by far THE BEST out of all other forms of stimulation. In this way, if I have not "finished" in awhile, it can be over pretty quickly whether or not I am controlling the action. So even when the girl is on top(where she controls it), or when I am doing her missionary (where I control it), I can technically finish pretty quickly. But I have gotten quite good at holding off for at least a good while.
The key for me is to have came within the past few hours before sex, and then I am at my "sexual prime" When this is the case, I can last a very long time (sometimes up to an hour or so). But because it has been at least a few hours, I can still get maximum size/hardness. See, while I can usually go again after 5-10 minutes after orgasm, I only seem to reach maximum hardness/size when I have waited a bit longer. There have been exceptions though. Many times my second orgasm is stronger/harder than the first, and my penis can get harder/bigger right before I burst. But overall, the size/hardness is usually dependent on how long it's been since I last orgasmed. And the amount of time I last is usually dependent on the same thing.
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:47 PM
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:56 PM
stamina has always been a concern of mine simply cause when i masturbate, i cum really fast. and from what it sounds like, its cause i'm in control instead of some one else.
i'm pretty sure im not getting laid tonight, just gonna eat some pussy and prolly get my dick sucked
Posted Fri Oct 30, 2009 07:54 PM
Longest sexual encounter might have been 90 minutes. Average first encounter maybe 10-15 minutes, after that 20-30 minutes:winner:
Posted Sat Oct 31, 2009 04:34 PM
Posted Sat Oct 31, 2009 11:20 PM
if all else fails, think to yourself, "i think i can i think i can i think i can!" or perhaps "i think i can't i think i can't i think i can't" would be more suitable