Girls, what can make sex an unenjoyable experience for you?
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 04:28 PM
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 04:48 PM
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 05:08 PM
i didn't come until i was twenty, so i feel i have a lot of catching up to do so have always refused to have sex without an orgasm. problem in a long-term relationship though is you get into bad habits, and by geezus that's a bad one!
on the 'what makes sex fun' question though - foreplay, mental stimulation and a good clit rub will normally do it for me. oh, and sloooowww. quick for me (like most things sexually) was a learnt skill. fantastic when you have it, but it didn't drop out of the hat with the bunny for me.
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 06:12 PM
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 08:01 PM
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 08:51 PM
Posted Mon Nov 02, 2009 10:01 PM
Mostly curiosity, and also each girl is usually turned ON by something slightly different, but usually there are some universal turn offs that should be avoided all of the time. Does that make sense?
Posted Tue Nov 03, 2009 07:43 PM
-Stubble, for sure. Kissing or recieving oral, feels like 100 grit sand paper. Ouchy ouch. Talk about not wanting to screw after oral!
-Sloppy kisses, bad breath, no eye contact, no passion
-Lack of confidence, lack of knowledge of a womans body, lack of personal hygiene
-Not enough fore play, that's a big one. Being teased turns us girls on like crazy!
-Alos as PP said, rubbing my clit too hard, or in the wrong place, like too low or too high, or off to the side. Happens alot, I know it's sometimes hard to find guys, but be gentle and if you can't find it, use all your fingers for a more broad coverage
-Not being wet enough when the penis goes in, lube (coconut oil especially!) really helps, ALOT. Some girls don't make alot of 'wet', so lube is a nice addition.
-And the biggest one is when the guy doesn't give a sh!t if the girl get off or not.