What is more important to make you orgasm? how relaxed you are or the technique?
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I guarantee you that, if she says she gets more turned on by back rubs, it will improve her chances of orgasming by 27.82%.
Really, you've just gotta ask and try. I doubt even she would know to exactly what degree back rubs will improve her orgasm.
BTW I'm going to attempt to move these posts over to your other thread as they have no relevance to first orgasms.
Posted Tue Nov 03, 2009 04:28 PM
Such as she may be relaxed in your company, but if she isnt relaxed enough to not care about about her bodily functions then she might be too wound up still to tuly relax and have an orgasm?
Posted Tue Nov 03, 2009 04:48 PM
this makes me so sad, because i know you both want her to come lots ...
all i can say is that i was in a very loving relationship when i first had one, but i couldn't have one in his company the very first time i had one. i felt stupid enough, let alone someone being there. i know you focus a lot on what you can do for her, which is beautiful, but ...
does she touch herself seil? does she try to bring herself to orgasm? because this is vital imo.
Posted Tue Nov 03, 2009 05:04 PM
Is mastrubation more vital than being relaxed? what makes mastrubation vital? what is it about having your first orgasm makes it easier for a woman to orgasm again?
Posted Tue Nov 03, 2009 05:14 PM
it's a learning experience seil, so when she does it once, she will know what to expect, know how not to fight it, how to let it happen, or make it happen - which ever she wants. we can't answer some of the questions you're posing because only your girlfriend knows, and she doesn't know them yet because she hasn't had an orgasm.
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