Watching your SO with another...
Posted Sun Nov 08, 2009 07:25 PM
Posted Sun Nov 08, 2009 08:14 PM
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Posted Sun Nov 08, 2009 09:26 PM
Its like a guy watching his favorite (female) pornstar in action, wishing they were the lucky guy. This situation is reversed though.
Another way to look at it is that the guy watching his wife being fucked by another guy is actually giving himself a Ego-stroke.
How? Because the thought of a man having his (keyword=His) hot wife being fucked tells him;
"I bet so many guys would love to fuck my wife. I mean look at her, SHE'S SO HOT! But i am the only one who can touch her, so that is never happening!"
You see what I mean? Its male possesivness. But of course this is seen from a males perspective...since im a male. But this can easily been seen through females perspectives as well.
BUT YOU SEE, this can EASILY back-fire if this were to ACTUALLY happen. That's why you hear people saying, "The thought of it is hot, but It wouldn't if the chance was given".
Its a fantasy for a reason....
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:27 AM
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Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:56 AM
There is no logic behind it, it's a preference. Some people like it, some don't. The thing to do if you don't like it is to shrug and wander away if it's not your cup of tea, so to speak.
Me? I have enjoyed it in the past and look forward to the next great adventure
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 07:50 AM
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 08:19 AM
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 10:16 AM
no way. i might enjoy shooting a muthafucka in his head while he's fucking my girl though. that's my idea of fun :rollseyes:
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 11:12 AM
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 11:19 AM
But thinking about it does excite me massively!!
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 11:22 AM
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Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 03:52 PM
I definitely prefer being a monogamous relationship and only having eyes for him. If we ever went through with having a threesome, I think we'd soon after break up. Seeing him enjoy another woman's body would kill me inside.
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 03:58 PM
We have been married 12 years and don't see that ending anytime! We have a very special relationship and find what works for us may not work for others.
Posted Mon Nov 09, 2009 04:19 PM