G/F's sexdrive no longer exist....
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A reported side effect of the Mirena IUD is a loss of interest in sexual activity. As the change in her interest in sex seems to coincide with the IUD, you should probably start there by consulting your doctor.
Posted Thu Nov 12, 2009 03:05 PM
specialized counselling seems the best choice
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Posted Thu Nov 12, 2009 07:17 PM
After a few of my buddies had a kid with their SO they said their sexlife dropped for a while. It'll pick up later on
Posted Thu Nov 12, 2009 07:48 PM
also, activiate her mind first and then work on the body. good luck!
Posted Thu Nov 12, 2009 08:08 PM
1. She popped out a kid
2. She now has foreign hormones entering her body
3. She got a foreign plastic thing in her uterus
While this is a lot I'd encourage you to not be ... well discouraged. If you and her are both willing to put in the time and effort, you'll be bangin like rabbits again in no time. I would talk to your doctor just to make sure everything is good.
I'd also recommend that you be super duper patient with your girl. Make sure when you talk to her about sex you go out of your way to prevent her from feeling guilty and be sure not to overwhelm her with pressure to jump back into bed. If she accuses you of being selfish remind her that sex is for both of you and you don't want to just bust a nut, you want to connect with her on that special level. That is, sexy time is beneficial for both of you (naaaaaace).
I'd continue to do the things you mentioned: helping around the house, dinners, massages and maybe even talk to her about some other ideas for getting her in the mood. Work backwards from what used to get her super turned on and take it one day at a time. Question, when you used to have sex with her regularly did she orgasm regularly?
Regardless, try to remain realistically hopeful You have a great community of sexy people here to support you until your girl's sex drive eclipse's your own ... and afterward too
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