Girls and love???
Posted Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:09 PM
So i was watchin the notebook right ( Yes, straight guys have a sensitive side too,...im not scared to show it). and well you know how the girl did not forget about the dude after 7 years and she still has feelings for him, and vice versa
I was thinking to myself is this really possible from a female perspective..
Like, can a girl still have feelings towards a ex boyfriend for so long??
If so can you share your thought and experiences.. i can tell you guys/girls a story that you might think is sweet but i would like to hear ur stories and thoughts first
Make it interesting!!!!
Posted Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:22 PM
oh, yes one can. i had a total thing for my first boyfriend ... first love and all that :dreamy: then it came to bite on the bum fifteen years later when we were both having a hard time, vulnerable, looking for easy ways out of problems, missing eachother after so long, reconnecting, remembering these amazing experiences .... getting back in touch was a bad thing to do, it was much better as a memory. sooooo over him now!
sorry, i bet you were looking for the good experiences! my advice is, don't go there .... but then again, i wouldn't change any of it ... ha.
Posted Fri Nov 13, 2009 10:26 PM
Posted Sat Nov 14, 2009 05:44 AM
Posted Sat Nov 14, 2009 08:13 AM
Posted Sat Nov 14, 2009 01:15 PM
We thought about getting back together about 7 years ago but when talking to him, decided that it would be more about what we used to have and the fluffy romantic notions.
I remembered pretty quickly why I divorced him though.
He called to tell me he was getting married and my emotions were everywhere. I was about to get married again myself so shouldnt have felt like that but hey, these things take us by surprise sometimes.
He's on my facebook as a friend and we have a good speaking relationship but there'll always be a place for him in my heart
Posted Sat Nov 14, 2009 02:12 PM
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Posted Sun Nov 15, 2009 07:08 PM
Well, im not the kind of guy to open up unless I truely feel saddened. But I do think about this one girl. Im not going into detail, but let me tell you, she had me around her fingers. She was tha shit man! But things happened, I got hurt.....pretty badly....and now im a bit afraid to be emotionally attached with someone. Of course, this wasn't the only event that made me who I am, but it was and has been a big influence on how I see things.
As far as I know, she'll be the last women to have me as loving as I was then.
But yes, from time to time, I do think "what if" about her. Would I commit if given the chance? Hell no...
Posted Mon Nov 16, 2009 05:23 PM
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 12:27 AM
Lol as soon as we have our dinner and a movie I will
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 11:53 AM
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 05:54 PM
B A said:
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 09:36 PM
B A said:
Wow!!!! this guys has the best post on this thread seriously thats some deep feelings man.. Hope the best for you, always remember that the best recieve the best
Posted Wed Nov 18, 2009 01:13 AM
Talk about Freudian.
She's not the one who got away. And I wouldn't give my wife up for her. But she'll always be special to me.
Posted Wed Nov 18, 2009 05:29 AM
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