Problem with keeping hard/getting erection
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 04:34 PM
I'm 19 years old, and not a virgin, I've have sex twice before, however last week I got to spend 3 nights with my girlfriend (long term relationship, weren't having sex before this, she is/was a virgin) and when it got to the point on the first night to start having sex I tried to put the condom on but I just wasn't hard enough, it was pretty hard but quite quickly started to lose it.. I tried to put it while still hard but i couldnt get it in (possibly not wet enough/too tight?)
she eventually gave me a handjob and that worked fine the few times she did, however at no point over the 3 nights can i remember being completely rock solid. each night it got even harder to get an erection, I hadn't been eating much at all and had been sick a few times so I'm questioning if it was down to my health and general exhaustion?
by the 3rd night i couldnt even get hard when she was trying to give me a handjob, which was really annoying.. I'm only 19 and I don't want to have this problem, please help
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 05:22 PM
I've had a few issues with keeping it hard, and I found many reason to it.
you can be too exhausted like you said, or since you didnt' had sex a lot before you must not feel confortable enough so you cant concentrate on being hard, your grilfriend might not stimulate you enough ( no offense I'm not saying she's bad or anything )or the environment where you are is too distracting maybe...
and you can go on and go on for a while like that.
now in your case it sound like you need to rest, chill and see in a few days how it goes.
there is no reason to worry about not being able to get hard, you are 19 and your body is full of hormones lol
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 08:03 PM
meh, I need some sort of advice, reassurance and what not... I don't like the idea of having to be impotent and use drugs everytime i want to get an erection
Posted Tue Nov 17, 2009 08:07 PM
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Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 02:01 AM
But one day, I was just on top of my girl just fooling around not even expecting sex, and it just kinda slipped in. I noticed I wasnt worrying or thinking, I was just looking at her and that just made me happy and thats the only thing that was on my mind.
It might not happen instantly, it took me a little over a month to have sex with my gf again because of it, but you know, just keep yourself cool and (I know this is A LOT harder said than done) try just keeping your mind on your gf and how good the whole experience is. Once you do it right once, its smooth sailing.
If you have any other questions, just ask.
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 06:09 AM
It was recommended by Dr. Oz on tv for helping out with a poor sex life and good for those not eating a balanced diet. You take it like a Vitamin because it is a vitamin.
Research shows no real side effects........ even for folks who ingested more than directed to help clear up acne..or to intensify sex..... and cheap enough to be affordable.