Approaching a girl
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 01:07 AM
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 01:13 AM
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 11:29 AM
You should be careful... very careful. You don't mention your age, her age, your capacity (professor, instructor, TA) or anything else and I don't blame you for that. I'll say forget it. If at all, wait until she's not YOUR student anymore, maybe not a student at the school you work.
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:10 PM
It's not really clear in your post though... If you are a fellow student then look for a chance and walk over and say hello. Ask her how she likes the class - you have that in common - something to talk about straight off...
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 12:44 PM
I've had the same situation. Its funny cuz i met my last gf through a lecture. I just sat near her and asked for help on the assingment .. honestly at that point you should know if she is interested or not.
i recommend sitting next to her in lecture by "luck". Ask her something and just kick up a convo. Lectures are good because u can hide your interest through the crowd of ppl and mask it by making it school related. Ask for her email just incase u need more help .. and thats half the battle
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 06:30 PM
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 06:52 PM
B A said:
That is perfect, BA! I like it.
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 07:45 PM
Seriously, how do people alienate themselves from others all because of gender?!
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 08:23 PM
also coffee is a safe medium to learn about each other
Posted Fri Nov 20, 2009 09:57 PM
Dont actually use your balls, you can get arrested for that.
I would try to give advice, but im going thru the same conundrum at the moment lol.
Posted Sat Nov 21, 2009 05:20 AM
OK, more seriously, as the years pass, you'll realize your life is LITTERED with wasted occasions. Looking back, this sucks, and hesitations and shyness were a silly waste.
So do use your balls, metaphorically speaking, and dare being blunt, telling your eye was caught and you'd be interested in getting closer (not intimate, don't overdo it ), offering a coffee or such.
Worst case scenario : clear refusal, but at least you're seen by the rest of your folks as a positive man with iron-clad balls and courage.
Good scenario : well, you can guess