rejected and cockblocked
Posted Sun Nov 22, 2009 06:42 AM
You are still going about it the wrong way. Beer doesn't make it right. It will only screw it up.
In previous posts, I suggested that you get to know someone well first...before you start a sexual relationship.
Try church events, yard sales, dances, the supermarket... even the local library. Be a little more casual.
Posted Sun Nov 22, 2009 10:19 PM
First, the way you talk about this (i.e. "ghetto monkeys" "good for nothing pieces of shit") would be a real turn-off to me. I anticipate the response that you didn't talk to them this way. But, insecurity and rudeness come through your words here, and I would bet that it came through whatever you said to them, too.
Second, if a guy thinks I owe him something because he gave me a beer, I would be very offended. I'm not a hooker.
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 01:32 AM
You didn't knock anyone up; you didn't catch some nasty STD; you didn't get stuck in jail. All in all it wasn't that horrible of a thing.
By this time next week something else will come up and people won't even remember what the hell happened. There's always another party happening to get another shot at getting laid with someone you couldn't care less about.
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 06:18 AM
Any woman of conscious doesn't want to be used. Any woman (no matter how pretty) that wants to be used that way...is not someone that will make your life any better. Sex this way will leave you frustrated, insecure, confused and lonely as you are right now. The reason why is that with sex this way usually comes feelings of romance. You just can't help it. You will want to get to know her better. So you want another date....except this girl will not remember who you are....or be off nailing someone else or will use you just add another notch to her gun. Or she will use you and hang around, use your car, make you take her places and make your life miserable till your wallet runs out or she catches the next ride. There are people that suffered through years of marriage only to find out what I'm telling you here.
As I said before, you need to get to know someone first. The right way to do it. The medium should not be beer.
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 09:34 AM
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 05:31 PM
Why u say that? how am i the problem?
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 05:49 PM
Not that I'm speaking for the other person, but your attitude dictates your actions. Some guys would have chalked it up to a bad night, laughed it off, and took some time to figure out what to do better if a similar situation comes up.
There are always going to be assholes as obstacles to what we want out of life; Don't waste your time on people like that. Instead, focus on changing your attitude, and thus your approach, which might net you better results in the long term.
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 10:43 PM
Posted Mon Nov 23, 2009 11:11 PM