A troubling thought
Posted Tue Dec 01, 2009 07:13 PM
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Posted Wed Dec 02, 2009 08:06 PM
I have been with my gf about a year now and everything has been going fine. Even before we were dating she had spoken of a desire to have a threesome with another woman or man. At the time, I thought thought little about it, but she recently brought it up again. She wants to try it both...with another woman, and another man. But she asks only that the other man or woman are people I know well. That is not an unfair request, so I don't have a problem with that. What I do have a problem with is seeing her with her mouth around another man's penis, for example. She has told me that it would be solely for fun, just to try it out, and that I shouldn't worry about her leaving me for another guy because she loves me. I can only think of one guy, a friend of mine who I've known for many years, and he said he was into it. My point is...I don't want to be one of those guys who immediately dismisses the idea of being in bed with another man, having his way with my gf. I want to share that experience with her. I'm not a jealous man, and it would be with a friend who I trust entirely, but I can't seem to find anything but anger with the images that come to my mind about her being with my friend, sexually. Am I overreacting or thinking to hard? How should I approach this? Any advise would be wonderful.
Yeah Wade if i was you i would pass it up maybe when you are ready. I to am very much jealous or should i say was. well i still am a little. well i have been married for thirty years and i am thinking that i want my wife to do it i mean it turns me on so bad and her too i think. well we just get into it while we are fucking each other brains out.and who s to say she may like it to much and not want to quit.... well what ever you deside just may sure you can live with it.......
Posted Sun Dec 06, 2009 02:41 AM
Ok, back to the original post. The answer is easy - don't do it. You're not ok with it and you shouldn't do it just because you feel like you should. You will resent your girlfriend for it. Hell, you already resent her just for wanting to do it. This will be a relationship killer, and may be anyway if she pushes the issue.
Just because the cool kids are doing it doesn't make it healthy for your particular relationship.
Posted Tue Dec 08, 2009 02:12 AM
Posted Thu Feb 11, 2010 08:40 PM
Well that is a issue that you would have to come to terms with before you decide to do this. It isn't for everybody. I did do it once it was a MFM but my wife and I at the time set boundries before we started to make sure that no one got hurt. I had no interest in him physically and he not in me. She was the central figure and we would both be able to fuck her but she only did oral on me. We had fun, it was strange, I don't regret if I were to do again now though I probably would have less limitations, but point being, set the limits and rules before you start.. Hope this helped.
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I think it would be a great idea, but not with your attitude about the experience. First, I think you are taking the wrong approach this. Second, leave your horny friend out of it, unless you are looking to suck and fuck each other too. If you are all prepared to have an open exchange of sexual pleasure, WITHOUT HANGUPS,it's not for you. Can't you see the pleasure that you all can enjoy. You should feel good about seeing her and encourage her to wrap her lips around your male partners cock. You can even join her. If you do it with a woman, wouldn't you want to have sex with her and share her with your gf? It's for sexual pleasure and life experiences. The other thing is that she is your gf, not your wife. Take the opportunity to have the experience, but do it with an open mind and enjoy it for the great time it could be. good luck