New, trying to figure something out
Posted Sun Jan 15, 2006 10:59 PM
Posted Sun Jan 15, 2006 11:06 PM
Anyway, the first thing to try is to ejaculate less often. If you are masturbating or having sex with a partner more often than once every day or two, try limiting it to that and see what happens.
When masturbating, btw, using lube can increase the feeling a lot. This might make you cum faster.
Just some random thoughts, but I can add that taking 20-60 minutes to cum is not a sign that you're broken.
Posted Sun Jan 15, 2006 11:08 PM
Posted Sun Jan 15, 2006 11:15 PM
Other possible causes - do you masturbate a lot? You could be desensitizing the penile areas. Work a jackhammer all day? Things like that, that cause prolonged rubbing or pressing physical contact with your genitals could be a factor.
But there are also a number of things you should examine in yourself. Do you truly enjoy masturbating, or do you have repressed guilt feelings about it? What about the sex act itself? Any guilt can manifest as guilty pleasure (fun, and a faster orgasm) or just plain guilt (anxiety, slow excitation response, delayed or aborted orgasm...)
Look closely at your feelilngs about sex, life and the woman you're with, the answers could lie there.
Or you could just be some nymphomanic's dream cum true (Is it OK to use that word on this board in such a manner, Warlock? There is a negative charge to the word that I don't like, but I don't know what other word would properly describe the kind of woman I'm referring to...)
In any case, if you are really worried, go to your doctor, but I don't think it's a big deal. Good luck with it, though.
Posted Sun Jan 15, 2006 11:34 PM