I'd love if I could get some advice or opinions, specially from girls.... (please excuse if my english isn't so good ^^)
This is not really a problem, is just that I really REALLY love oral sex and no matter how much I do it to her or I let it seem (in a subtle way) like I'd love to get some too.... she barely does it. We've been together for over two years and I can count with my fingers the number of times she gave me a blow job. I've talked to her and said that I'd love if she could give me more oral sex and she says that she only feels like doing it when she is REALLY excited.... 90% of the times she did it to me it was in the middle of me doing it to her... but when I'm doing oral sex to her (almost every day) she reaches her orgasm before and then says that after she comes she doesn't feel like doing anything else... and so I have to masturbate to have an orgasm because I'm very excited.... But if for example we are making love and I come first, I don't mind doing oral sex to her until she comes too... I don't know... everything else is perfect, we love making love..... but whenever we are playing and I ask if she could do me a blowjob she just doesn't want to and feels a little bothered- But when we talked about what gets us turned on the most (we are very sincere) she said that giving head is what's more exciting to her and that when she is alone and masturbates most of the time she imagines herself doing a blowjob! and whenever she has "sex dreams" she dreams about giving oral sex...
... I also know (she told me) that she had plenty of oral sex with her past boyfriends and she told me that she even did it at an empty movie theater, in a car, in a pool. The times she is done it to me she seemed to enjoy it and she even liked me to ejaculate inside her mouth, and she swallowed once... I wonder why she only hardly ever does it to me.
Do you think she is selfish? do you think I should do something about it like doing less oral sex to her to see if she realizes that it's important to me? or just forget about it? What do you think happens?
The truth is that I feel a little bad for consulting this in a forum... can you guys help me out?
This post has been edited by neogokuraku: Fri Jan 08, 2010 09:48 PM