"You're nice, but you don't have game"
Posted Mon Jan 11, 2010 01:53 AM
Posted Mon Jan 11, 2010 05:08 AM
Posted Mon Jan 11, 2010 07:08 AM
Nice is being being a good person to your friends and generally being friendly and respectful to all people, not just cute women. Too nice is doing favors, giving your time and attention to people who have no intention of reciprocating.
If you are the first kinda nice then you're cool. You just need to practice the art of flirting a bit more and try to actually make a move early on when you like someone (yeah that's the hard part, lol).
If you are the second kind of nice, stop that. It's self-serving, women see through it, you attract users, and nobody will respect you as a potential catch.
Posted Tue Jan 12, 2010 12:06 AM
Posted Tue Jan 12, 2010 05:20 AM
i love that - it's beautifully self-referential or circular or something fabulously fancy.
Posted Tue Jan 12, 2010 08:53 AM
Posted Tue Jan 12, 2010 08:38 PM