Attracted to larger ladies...
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 01:22 PM
I only ask because none of the guys I know are, or at least they wouldn't admit to it.
I've always found 'big' girls sexy. I'm not sure why and I like skinny girls too, but I usually find 'bigger' girls prettier.
So would people generally consider fancying 'big' girls strange or is it just that most men don't want to seem strang by admiting it?
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 01:37 PM
As for whether or not they really feel the same as you, it's debatable. Since skinny is the fashion, it overwhelms people's minds through media and such, and therefore, if they don't have a strong type or are not in touch with themselves, they can use that model, if not simply to improve their perceived standing in the world. Personally, I'm cynical enough to believe that this is the case for the majority of people in the world. However, being attracted to skinny girls does not make a man automatically in this case. Some are naturally (they will all say they are) attracted to skinny girls, just as you are attracted to something that is outside of the current fashion.
That being said, it's definitely sexy to know what you like and be confident in it!
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 01:38 PM
Oh I'm not worried about it, just wondering if it's as uncommon as it seems. I'm Irish so not quite sure where you were going with the WalMart reference though.
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 02:06 PM
Mod Note: Please keep your replies civil in this topic and remember we do have females of all shapes and sizes on here, and we wouldn't want to hurt any of their feelings with this topic!
Now onto the question you ask. Is it weird? Hell no! I have found MANY MANY men who prefer larger women over the skinny or even athletic type. Most say they love the curves and that sex is better with them "more cushion for the pushing." Yeah, there's going to be those men who don't like the women bigger, but well that's like women not wanting bigger guys. It's preference. You will find a ton of guys on here who will drool over larger women. HEHEHE just look at my pic threads and watch the guys whom drool over me....the numbers have added up since I've been here! My b/f has no real pref. in size. His main turn off is big boobs (which I don't have) , but he has always loved my body and been very aroused by it no matter what size I am, and that has changed alot since we met!
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 02:49 PM
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 03:45 PM
I think it's great that you recognize that you like bigger women; and if I may, I find men who like different body types rather sexy. It's like they like women, period, and not a picture someone put in their heads subliminally. Unfortunately, there's a fixation in the media with youth and being thin is part of the image.
The truth is that women are actually built to gather fat in their bodies, this is what nature intended; and in general, this is the way most cultures differentiate fully grown women from pre-pubescent girls. So, I'll say you have a very healthy taste in women, and when you marry or commit to a woman, you'll probably keep appreciating her even after her body changes over the years.
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 04:11 PM
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 04:17 PM
I wouldn't say most - More like a decent sized percentage.
Look at yourself. You feel odd even admitting it because you feel it to be wrong. Why? It's your preference after all. Doesn't matter what anyone else things, and that would hold true no matter what body type you preferred most. Taste is subjective and there's far too much guilt tripping from both sides that we should like one type over another. The only opinion here that matters is your own.
Posted Wed Jan 13, 2010 10:01 PM
Posted Thu Jan 14, 2010 08:24 AM
Posted Thu Jan 14, 2010 09:49 AM
Posted Thu Jan 14, 2010 10:20 AM
It's about time everyone realized nobody's perfect and respected other people for what they are.
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 05:28 AM
This is exacly what I was getting at. I seem to have given a lot of people the impression that I'm uncomfortable with my preferences, which was never my intention and for which I apologise. The topic was in my head because a guy I know was recently with a girl for one night and he described her as 'carrying a bit of weight' and then justified it by saying 'but she had the biggest tits I've ever seen'.
What surprised me was the fact that he felt the need to justify merely spending one night with this girl. It just struck me as very insecure, despite the fact that he comes accross as one of the most self-confident guys I know. I also felt it was very unfair on the girl to feel the need to try to justify sleeping with her.
I was just wondering if most guys would be afraid to admit to their friends if they like girls who don't fit into the media's image of beauty.
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 07:14 AM
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 11:01 AM
I have a lot of bigger friends. One is extremely overweight and would be considered morbidly obese, and doesn't do a thing about it. And she sleeps with a lot of men because she can and it makes her feel better about herself. And that's all i gotta say about that.
I've never been a small girl. I never will be. But I think once you cross a certain line it's just disgusting - but ONLY because these people don't do anything about it. That would turn me off if i were a guy.
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 01:59 PM
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 04:56 PM
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 05:10 PM
I have a huge thread on here now and get pm's all the time telling me that my ass/legs are amazing They are the bits of me that I was always most paranoid about!
So what size do you call larger? I think its really good that we all like different people, I don't have a type in general but I know that I've had guys of all shapes, heights etc and I tend to fall for personality first.
Good for you, its the irish in you! We like to feed people and be well fed there,
Posted Fri Jan 15, 2010 06:00 PM
On here...apparently guys/gals like biger asses, meatier legs, and what not..quite funny...
I'm more self-conscious about my body now and about posting pics..now that my body has changed drastically b4 your eyes literally...I've gone from a full BBW to an average sized clothing and even the new clothes are loose fiting now...and no I'm not on a diet or anything...just what is happening..dunno why....maybe some day I'll get back into the practice of not worrying about my appearance on here.