Is your S/O as sexual as you are? How do you compensate?
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 12:35 PM
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 01:02 PM
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 02:21 PM
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 02:57 PM
I'm hoping she will get back into the swing of things.
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 04:39 PM
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 04:48 PM
I get my fix here instead and with my SF S/O instead
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 06:08 PM
But now actually that we're together, I'm more sexual than I've ever been and we've gotten to explore a lot with each other.
I can't complain .
This post has been edited by cocoa70: Mon Jan 18, 2010 06:08 PM
Posted Mon Jan 18, 2010 11:27 PM
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 02:52 PM
With my wife, she is satisfied with twice a month!
It's hard to cope sometimes. Sometimes I get depressed, sometimes I get angry. I deal with it by masturbating, but it's not the same and doesn't really satisfy me. I have never cheated nor will I. Though I can't say it doesn't cross my mind at times.
Not only am I more sexual, I am also more affectionate (non sexually) so that adds to the frustration.
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 03:35 PM
That being said, he's always ready to go, but there's an ebb and flow to my sexuality. I'm sure it's hormonal and emotional, and I hope he appreciates the variety I bring to the bed. When I'm not feeling all that sexual, things are pretty basic. Then at other times, I'm animalistic, experimental, and can't get enough!
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 04:02 PM
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 04:37 PM
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 04:56 PM
She doesn't like to try new things Missionary... no doggy style...
Will try some new tricks if ya'll have any!!
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 06:09 PM
And I'd cheat on her in a MINUTE! I have been chatting with some awesome prospects on FB, and have even considered offering my bottom to another man.
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 08:25 PM
Posted Tue Jan 19, 2010 10:43 PM
Posted Thu Jan 21, 2010 11:27 PM
Frankly, I can't say I'm too terribly upset about it
Posted Fri Jan 22, 2010 10:44 PM
Posted Mon Jan 25, 2010 07:07 PM
I think I have a higher/stronger sex drive than my SO, which is less of a problem for me now that he moved home for work. When we were living together (and maybe when we are again), I was bummed because I sometimes felt unsexy and like he didn't want to have sex with me because he didn't think I was physically attractive. He always says that it's not that when I ask him/talk to him about it. However, now that we're doing the long distance thing for a little while, I just masturbate and watch porn in between the weekends when I get to see him, and when we do see each other now, sex is basically a guarantee. The hard part is between the times we're together. I'm still going to miss him, and I'd never cheat because I love him and don't want to destroy our relationship. I use masturbation/porn as a sexual outlet rather than cheating until I can see him again.