GF with a low sex drive...
Posted Sun Jan 31, 2010 06:31 AM
Posted Sun Jan 31, 2010 06:34 AM
Posted Wed Feb 03, 2010 06:04 PM
Posted Thu Feb 25, 2010 12:43 AM
I'm sorry but this is a terrible thing to suggest. Getting a girl slightly drunk so she loses some of her inhibitions is completely wrong and inappropriate and could be considered rape. If you need to get your girlfriend drunk to get her to have sex you have far bigger problems than a lack of sex.
I would suggest try to mix things up a little bit and maybe try to be more romantic, maybe dedicate a night or two a week to everything that she wants to do or something like that. Remind her how special she is to you and maybe she'll be more in the mood then. Alcohol is certainly not the answer though!!!!!
Posted Fri Feb 26, 2010 01:00 AM
I'm sorry but you're an idiot (I mean this in the nicest way possible). Reading your other post about 'Sarah' and 'Tina' and 'Tom'. Whether you realize it or not, you have probably become emotionally retracted from 'Tina' - do you not think that she can sense this?
Maybe you should be more mindful of the way you are feeling, why you are feeling that way, and the way those feelings translate into actions. It is really easy to say that "Sarah and I, we're just good friends ... nothing more", and to tell yourself that that is simply all there is. But trust me, in some way, shape or form - however miniscule - you are acting different and she can sense it.
Posted Fri Feb 26, 2010 04:34 AM
What about intimacy and touching? Has that leveled off too? If it hasn't then you can probably rev the sex up again. If it has, then she's probably giving you the best she can give for the time being. Maybe it's the stress of college.
Oh and I forgot. One thing that revs the sex drive is time apart. Maybe y'all shouldn't spend every night together for the time being and see what happens...
This post has been edited by cocoa70: Fri Feb 26, 2010 04:36 AM
Posted Fri Feb 26, 2010 10:45 AM
Oh i'm sorry to hear that. but sometimes that's what happen when the passion fade out. I have the same experience with my bf. However, my bf try to spice things up by wearing sexy G-string himself, setup a romantic enviroment. He even buy a vibrator to tease me till i can't bare with no more. Actually i fell in love with the vibrator and with him being so considerate....
Maybe it will help you as well...good luck
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 12:30 PM
Posted Fri Apr 02, 2010 02:02 PM
That's kind of disturbing...not really a great idea to be sticking drugs into girls drinks
Posted Thu Apr 08, 2010 06:08 PM
Posted Thu Apr 15, 2010 02:41 PM
My GF suffers of depression and her sexdrive is low, reaching orgasms is pretty hard (near impossible... she can't reach them when she masturbates nor I can make her come). Her mentioned difficulties are a mix between her mental state and her medicines (Anti-depressive pills, more often than not, reduce the sexdrive and also sensitivity)
So as you can see, most it's on her head. Make her feel sexy, Buy her a vibrator if you haven't already. Try new and kinky things (Anal, DP, Vib+Penis on Vag, kinky clothes for you or her, flowers, love cards... be imaginative) of course she needs to make an effort too maybe trying a new position (make her "ride you", My GF loves that position).
One thing I tried recently was to show my GF some of the porn I like, she was like "... uhm.. ywah .. well I'm not that excited" then I showed her some hentai and she was like "haha... that's pretty interesting can you get some more... but with less dialog and more fucking?"
Other thing you can do is try some alcohol. Don't get her drunk or anything just drink one beer or two "just because". Every time my GF drinks, she gets a bit horny and she acknowledges that so every time we go out to the movies she asks me to go to a restaurant and she orders a couple of beers (No, she doesn't mix her medicines and the alcohol) Most of the times we end the evening doing it in the backseat of my car. Alcohol is not a "must".. but sometimes helps.
Do not misjudge me, as I said I am not getting her drunk nor she says "alcohol is a must for her to get horny" it's just a "whenever possible, we try it"
Bottom line (or TL;DR version)
Be creative, be kinky, don't take her for granted and make her feel sexy. Be sure she FEELS ok not only with you but overall and also remember, The sex life is not only your responsibility.
Good Luck sir
May the schwartz be with you
Posted Thu Apr 15, 2010 07:05 PM