Need a bit of assistance...
Posted Wed Feb 22, 2006 06:40 PM
The kicker is, I want to do stuff she dont like, which is perfectly fine, but there's other stuff I wish she'd do, that would majorly turn me on... like when I cum on her chest... I'd love to see her rub it all over herself. So what do I need to do? Is there a way I can hint at her that I'd love the sight of this?
Also, she is on the pill, and lately I have not been using a rubber, which I ort to e beat for not doing.. But, nevertheless, right before she orgasms, she gets VERY tight down yonder.. and it makes me want to go off.. so I end up pulling out to prevent filling her. Thus, breaking her orgasm.. How can I hold it better? I love to pull out and cum all over her belly, so is there anything I can do or she can do, so she can orgasm, and I can still get what I want? I'm tired of pulling out and leaving "Bob" to finish the job.. it's very disheartening...
So help me out folks.. Ya'll have not steered me wrong yet.. many thanks in advance!!
Posted Wed Feb 22, 2006 06:44 PM
As for holding on, if you're on top the best idea I can give is to reach down right when she starts to cum and "pinch" your cock, top and bottom, that should be enough to cork ya some until she gets off.
Posted Wed Feb 22, 2006 08:18 PM
RIGHT after you cum on her chest (I mean within a second), just tell her what you want to see her do. Make it SOUND sexy to her. "oh baby, I'd love to see you rub my cum all over your sexy tits (boobs, breast, whatever she calls them) , mmmmm" If it sounds sexy she may be curious enough to try it.......and Most girls will oblige if we know it will make our guys happy.
Posted Wed Feb 22, 2006 08:55 PM
Don't want to rain on your parade, but you should already know whether your girl likes cum or not, and if she really did, you'd know it. Going on my own experience and that of the friends I have and girls I know, very few make the converstion from anti-cum, or dead neutral about it, to being totally into it, pro-cum. That sounds funny, but its the truth! Most of us just see it as a mess to avoid during sex and don't see it as vital to our experience and satisfaction, which is what you're hoping to satisfy by having your girl rub it into her skin. Those girls who like cum are like those who like it up the butt too_few and far between!
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Posted Wed Feb 22, 2006 09:35 PM
Lil Missy said:
i know a few girls who went from "no cum" to fill 'er up baby!"
i think your statement is like saying all guy cheat on their girls. it's not true. it might be for a majority, but not all, and i think "few and far between" is incorrect. but like you said - it's based off you and your girl friends, so sure, why not. Just thought id comment for his sake.
Posted Wed Feb 22, 2006 09:46 PM
I fall into that catagory! What made the difference? Love ~ awwww.
Like you said Make love "WITH", that makes a huge difference.
Posted Thu Feb 23, 2006 08:06 AM
Most of my friends, or out of the ones who talk about such things, most of them don't have a high opinion about a guy's cum, period. Even as you said, about going from ewwww to "fill er up," there's a big difference there. I'm sure that the feeling of your guy cumming inside you during sex is the most common and socially acceptable form of enjoying "fill er up," but there's day and night difference between that and the girl who, regardless of being in love or not, just plain requires the feel of it covering her body, drinking it, etc as an important part of feeling sexually satisfied.
Also, to me, saying that enjoying "fill er up" is more likely or socially permissable only when "in love" is every bit a negative stereotype as suggesting that all guys cheat on their gfs. I can't tell you how many girls I've known who needed to trick themselves into believing they were in love only to be able to give into their sexual impulses without feeling as guilty. Now that's a ewwwwwy mess to avoid!
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