Kind of ugly- need some advice
Posted Fri Feb 19, 2010 11:56 PM
This post has been edited by rhone: Fri Feb 19, 2010 11:56 PM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:00 AM
well about a month ago i ended up breaking it off with my girlfriend. Now im kind of feeling screwed.
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:01 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:03 AM
This post has been edited by LameScreenName: Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:09 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:12 AM
so then how are u ugly exactly?
.. i cant even believed im asking, seems so stupid .. its all about finding yourself good looking thus to fuel your confidence which makes all the difference
but i want to know what about yourself u find ugly exactly?
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:13 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:19 AM
I lucked out last time because i used my sob story to my advantage and got laid from it. there is no game to be hard. there is no confidence to gain from my past.
This post has been edited by LameScreenName: Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:21 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:37 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:46 AM
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The short answer is post pictures as attachments. When you add a reply, you'll see an option for attachments.
Also read the rules at the link in my signature.
This post has been edited by Abigail: Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:47 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 12:55 AM
i am kind of concerned with posting pics on the internet as they will last forever. how can i do this without actually uploading to this site in particular like using imageshack.us or something?
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 01:03 AM
[img ]photofukkit or whatever.jpg[/img ].
No spaces between the g and the ].
But mods will remove attachments on request.
This post has been edited by Abigail: Sat Feb 20, 2010 01:04 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 02:11 AM
a couple of years ago
things to note: dark circles are a product of not sleeping very much. some days i get good sleep but never back to back. im about 6ft tall and 240 in the recent pics i was 210 in the older one.again constructive comments only. i am not fishing for compliments. I am also not looking for insults. i am looking for constructive comments on how to fix this. i am concerned that even if my efforts pay off at the gym that it is pointless. kind of ugly regardless. i have tried to think of a way to showcase the ex without showing her face but i can not as that was what was attractive about her the most. with that being said i will not post her pics. so yeah.....
i think its fixed. editting seems to screw it up
This post has been edited by LameScreenName: Sat Feb 20, 2010 02:23 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 02:19 AM
i fixed the issue. unfortunately there is no delete post option.
This post has been edited by LameScreenName: Sat Feb 20, 2010 02:42 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 06:35 AM
This post has been edited by rew5678: Sat Feb 20, 2010 06:38 AM
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 07:45 AM
everyone has some kind of issue with their body, wether it be dark circles, small breast etc, fretting and worrying will not help the situation it will make it worse.
your not quasymodo. id also like to add your eyes are so piercing, very attractive.
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 09:42 AM
I actually think you are quite attractive
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 09:50 AM
I also do not think you're ugly. Your eyes and your hair are both very nice, use them to your advantage. You do look very sad, as was mentioned above. Smile, be happy, be confident. Easier said than done.
I used to be very insecure with myself. I lost some weight - and gained a tiny bit of confidence. That's all that i really needed. I feel way different about myself now.
I'm one of those cheesy folks who says - there's somebody out there for everyone, you just have to find them.
Posted Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:13 AM
edit: i appreciate what you have all said. she does like my eyes and likes the fact that she can wear heels around me without an issue. she liked how i treated her and how she always felt about herself when she was around me. i just dont know how to get a catch like her again. she was someone who was supportive of my goals and lets face it toned up in the process which is a plus. its not only the outer shell attractiveness that it improved it was the fact that those changes came as a direct result of her wanting to join me on my path towards my goals.
she and i have gone our separate ways not due to looks so much as timing. she will be 28 in july and i will be 26 in november. my original plan was 29 to have kids and that is what she was banking on as she will be 31 at that point. she asked me when i was planning on having kids and i simply said not until my 30s. honestly i dont know if i will have kids until i am at least 32-33 and that is too long for her to wait. it kills me to see her so upset about it. she had an abortion late last year and we recently dealt with that. i cant ask her to wait if she does not want to.
This post has been edited by LameScreenName: Sat Feb 20, 2010 10:35 AM