Jumping the fenbce with wife/GF's blessing Should you do it if she keeps on telling she'd be okay with that?
Posted Sun Feb 28, 2010 08:44 AM
Now a couple of male friends i talked with say that i shouldn't, because they both had the same situation but once they jumped, the girl freaked out and filed them for divorce. But a lady friend of mine also told me that it should be ok... What would YOU do? And GF keeps on telling me everytime i even start to say "fuck me like that twice a week and suck me once a week and I'll be fine" she tells me "ok, but you know i don't mind you getting sex with another girl once in a while!"
You probably will ask: " she is probably already cheating on you" well i'm pretty 99% sure she doesn't; i know her for 12 years, don't forget. Even in the beginning , her libido wasn't that high, and she always told she wanted to keep herself for her one and true love (yep i am her first real boyfriend-lover). With her schedule at work and school i don't possibly see where she could find the time to have sex, and i can clearly see she's not having any at job (meaning I'd see sore pussy, or the smell of cum down there of iun her breath). Personnallly, I wouldn't mind if she had as long as she keeps some for me...
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 04:30 AM
Posted Thu Mar 25, 2010 10:39 AM
Posted Thu Mar 25, 2010 01:30 PM
I haven't read the book but I've seen her several interviews on youtube and this lady makes a lot of sense about how erotic desire and love & security require different things. I think way too many otherwise happy couples are getting divorced over stuff like this and it's a shame!
Don't get me wrong; if you had said, your wife was unloving and a miserable person, I'd say, get the divorce! But this doesn't sound like the case.
What's comforting is that when this happens to loving couples it's usually nobody's fault; and there are things couples can do (she even discusses affairs, although personally not for me, she at least approaches the topic intelligently and fairly). Check it out.
Posted Thu Mar 25, 2010 11:25 PM
Posted Fri Mar 26, 2010 11:19 PM
In short, i'll just be patient,... and hope for the "seven year itch" to came true!