I knew him for about 6 years before our first date. Around our 2nd date, we had sex in the back seat of a large car, and our friends ( a couple) were in the front seat. If that wasn't enough, about a week later, we did it again. I had smoked weed both times which I don't do very much.
Now, our relationship is getting serious and I'm feeling like I shouldn't get serious with a guy who would disrespect me enough to "go for it" on the 2nd date with our friends in the front seat. I know I went along with it, but it wouldn't have happened like that if he hadn't gone for it. Why didn't he have enough respect for me not to "go for it " so soon. I thought our friends were "busy" in the front seat, but they were just messing around. Both times I thought they were "doing it" too, and it was all normal. Now I feel like my boyfriend treated me like a sleeze, even though he seems really in love with me now, it's bothering me that he would do a thing like that. What does that say about how he felt about me then? And what does that say about the type of person he is?
Would you treat a girl like that who you respected, or if you were in love with her? What would you think of a girl who went along with it? And what would your reason be for "trying for it" on the 2nd date like that?
Help please, I need lots of opinions on this, especially from guys.
This post has been edited by toxicldy: Thu Mar 04, 2010 11:15 PM