Wrong name during sex
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:24 AM
He tells me that last night he and his wife are right in the throws of passion and she blurts out " Oh John ".
Which obviously ruined the mood and brought things to an abrupt halt. He says he pressed her for WHY and she told him that she was just fantasizing about a friend of theirs.
He asked what should he do. I told him to keep talking to her about it and communicate more with her about it. Try not to be accusatory but just try to work through it.
Any suggestions that I can give to Wild Bill?
Has this ever happened to any of you?
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 11:18 AM
If he is open to the swinging idea he can really talk to her and open up about the possibilities of that sort of thing.
If he is not open to that and will only be interested in one on one relationship then he still needs to communicate that. Maybe it was just a fantasy......maybe she really wants John. He wont know unless he talks to her about it. Either way he needs to have an open mind when he talks to her about it and make her understand that its okay to be honest. You HAVE to have open lines of communication. If she feels she will be shunned by her true feelings then she will most likely lie and keep them to herself and hope she never blurts that again.
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 12:09 PM
Anyway I would talk to her, ask her if it's just a fantasy. Sometimes fantasy is just fantasy, something we think about but would never want to happen for real.. But then again some fantasies we would like to happen... You need to talk to her and find out just what sort of fantasy it is..
Is John married? maybe you could roll play it out.. You might get lucky as John, a different man doing things to her you have never done before. Or talking to her dirtier then you have ever thought she would like..
If it is a fantasy she would like to happen for real you need to figure out how you feel about it first.. then talk to her... don't get defensive or gelious.. Just go at it with an open mind..
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 12:15 PM
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 12:29 PM
Or he could turn that guilt of hers into sexual capital to get a few extra blowjobs from it.
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 12:34 PM
LMAO! That's so worth trying.
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 02:45 PM
As far as the guy John and if he is married or not, I have no idea because I don't know the guy but I will start by mentioning these suggestions, including the rodeo sex hehehehehe.
I guess I won't go up to him and say " OK John I mean Bill I have been giving things some thought"..............................
Posted Thu Mar 11, 2010 03:03 PM
I would say that their sex life has a lot of problems, and her calling him the wrong name may be the opportunity they need to sort them out.
I've never called a girl the wrong name during sex but I was in the middle of a huge argument with a girlfriend once and yelled "Stephhh... Tiffany!" Oops...
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Posted Fri Mar 12, 2010 01:40 PM
"I had sex with my gf and she yelled Matt in the middle....my name is Matt! My life is avg."
This post has been edited by Mamon: Fri Mar 12, 2010 01:40 PM
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