we both enjoy watching anal themed porn to arouse us as well. but the problem is in many of those videos the women can get their assholes to open up wide or "gape".
my girlfriend asked me if hers did that too. which it never does. I told her it doesn't but that seems ok because tighter is better no?
she is now obsessed with getting her asshole to gape wide open during us having anal sex.
I've tried vigorous fucking and slow stretching, but it always snaps right back like a rubber band!
any suggestions or is this a lost cause?