What's good sex to you?
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 01:59 PM
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 02:50 PM
As a rule, if you want to know the difference between sex that is good and sex that isn't, just make an audio tape and listen to it. If the sex is good, you can HEAR that it's good. I know women can fake orgasms and all that blah blah blah, so I'm not just talking about listening to the orgasm. Listen to the sex. You can HEAR good sex.
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 03:09 PM
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 03:23 PM
I agree 100% !
Open communication is key, it allows both parties to discuss likes and dislikes and how to correct anything that might need some tweaking. My wife and I have great communication, it allows us to better service each other to maximize our enjoyment. My sex life was pretty non-existant for like 6-7 years, after our talk we found out that each of us thought the other wanted something different, funny how that worked out, now that we talked we found out that we are both on the same page of kinkyness and have broadend our horizons for the better.
This post has been edited by Rob2000: Mon Mar 22, 2010 03:23 PM
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 09:19 PM
Good sex to me is like looking through an art gallery. There are pieces you can enjoy quickly and yet never forget. And then there are the pieces that take your real attention and leave you breathless... one you enjoy taking your time inspecting every line, enjoying each moment you are involved.
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 10:01 PM
Posted Mon Mar 22, 2010 10:02 PM
Time? I've had good sex when I was rushed for time. Privacy? I've had good sex when I knew other people knew what we were doing. Lots of sensual skin contact? Yeah, I love that, but I've had good sex that wasn't very touchy-feely. Getting it when I want it? Sometimes somebody's gotten me aroused when I didn't expect to be. Pleasing a partner? Ha ha, sometimes I've just taken, and it was good. Being pleased? Orgasm? Even that--sometimes it's been good even without that.