my girlfriend doesn't feel pleasure! please help
Posted Tue Mar 14, 2006 12:53 PM
Posted Tue Mar 14, 2006 05:04 PM
Posted Tue Mar 14, 2006 09:43 PM
Mari J said:
she doesnt masturbate. she said nothing even feels good when i finger her or eat her out and even during intercourse. it's really gettin me mad because i WANT it to feel good for her. i dont see how i could be doing it wrong???
Posted Tue Mar 14, 2006 09:49 PM
How does she feel about kissing or cuddling?
Posted Tue Mar 14, 2006 09:55 PM
She might need to explore her own body and discover what gives her pleasure. The two of you can explore together, but only she knows what she's feeling, so she should probably start out on her own.
Some people have to develop sexual responsiveness over time from exploration, experimentation, learning, and practice. It requires patience; so, of course, anger is the first thing you need to get over if you're going to work with her on this.