Weird scenario - any advice?
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 02:37 PM
Basically, I'm not very confident with women. I'm 20 years old and have never had sex, so I'm still a virgin. I feel under considerable pressure to lose my virginity the older I get, the longer it goes on, the more worried I become about my first time. I don't feel I'm especially unattractive either, just really shy around women (I'd be happy to post a pic, but you never know who is reading these forums!).
Anyway, 2 of my sister's friends (one of them is my friend too, I guess) I am really attracted to, and I think they are really, really sexy. I'm not sure we would be particularly suited in a relationship, but I still really fancy them. I know this is really, really wrong but I would absolutely love to have sex with either of them!
Do you think there would be any way of initiating the fact I would quite like to 'get to know them'? Both have been single for a while, so they must have needs, right? Maybe if I told them I was a virgin they might like to 'help me out'?
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 03:30 PM
Try making small talk with both of them seperately, see which one of them responds more positively and try to make her laugh, talk about her, ask her what she likes to do in her free time, once you get the conversation going one thing should lead to another (hopefully) Its all got to do with the small talk at the begining wheather you'll strike or not, she'll either like you or wont. Dont be too pushy and try to be assertive, no doubt if you just be yourself you'll go a long way, lots of women like shy men.
Who knows mabey one of these lucky women may be your future wife. Dont forget to send me an invite.... Good luck.
Posted Sat Apr 03, 2010 04:01 PM
To be honest, I have made these mistakes several times and it had no positive outcomes.
To be honest again, I was quite shy and very bad at these chasing strategies, so in my case it was mainly some amount of alcohol (I mean drinking together, not just me getting totally drunk:) which helped me in most of my success-stories at the beginning...
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