Did I cheat? And if so what should I do now?
Posted Tue Apr 13, 2010 04:12 PM
With that said I met a guy on a discussion forum. So he emailed me and we started talking. I told him right off I was married, but we started IMing with the 'intent' of discussing the topic of the forum. Anyway one thing led to another and we started sexting or whatever it is. He sent me some pictures of himself, but I never sent any. We never actually came together while sexting but that is because I held back because in the back of my mind it seemed worse.
I have since ended the relationship but I am just wondering...do I tell my husband? Does he have the right to know?
Posted Tue Apr 13, 2010 05:27 PM
I would say if you met the guy and fucked him, then yes that would have been cheating but you indulged in some attention from a male online that you connected with.
Don't sweat it, and confession may be good for the soul but is it really going to be good for your husband to hear or know? I think you may feel better but you may just destroy him
Posted Tue Apr 13, 2010 05:35 PM
Posted Tue Apr 13, 2010 06:37 PM
I really don't want to tell him since nothing physical happened and it would just add to our other many problems and cause him pain. But it was very graphic and I have seen pretty much every inch of that guys body.
Posted Wed Apr 14, 2010 03:22 AM
Posted Wed Apr 14, 2010 11:21 AM
Whether it is cheating or not....? Maybe some kind of "mental cheating", but it belongs to the same category as for example watching porn. If you were watching porn, would you feel like you are cheating and obliged to confess to your husband?
Anyway, if you do not have sex with your husband anymore, I do not think that you have committed any "sin" or something really bad... How can we be sexually unfaithful in a relationship which does not include sex?...
Posted Wed Apr 14, 2010 11:48 AM
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This post has been edited by bandit oakley: Tue Apr 20, 2010 06:46 AM