I've always wondered about this...
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:17 PM
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:30 PM
This post has been edited by StripTeaser: Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:32 PM
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:45 PM
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:49 PM
You think some women would be intimidated of a guy with a good body? Why is that?
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 05:58 PM
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 06:38 PM
Yea, getting rejected is never fun. Based on your profile pic I have a hard time believing you ever get rejected. How come you don't have a picture thread? I think we'd all like to get a better look lol
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 06:51 PM
And I have been rejected more times than I'd like to count. It really hurt especially because it mostly happened when i was younger. made me really self-conscious. And even now, when I have guys telling me I'm gorgeous and they love my body, I still have a hard time believing them. So I try to be careful so i can protect my feelings. That is why I could not respond to a guy that has a body like that.
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 08:52 PM
The problem I see in other locations is that men tend to see women who answer those ads as sluts or just meat to use in dispose. Personally, I would never agree to a treatment like that, and in case of great distress, I would rather keep my vibe handy.
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 09:35 PM
Posted Sat Apr 17, 2010 09:42 PM
This is a study that investigates attitutdes toward casual sex. Men just seem to be a lot hornier than women. No surprise there lol.
"We found that regardless of the requestor’s attractiveness,
men are far more interested in casual sex than are women. Women express greater
likelihood of accepting offers of casual sex only from an exceptionally attractive
man, compared with a less attractive man. Men, in contrast, manifested no
differences in their interest in casual sex with a moderately or an exceptionally
Posted Sun Apr 18, 2010 11:50 AM
I think it goes back to what StripTeaser said about women craving a more emotional connection when it comes to sex. At least I know that idea applies to me. I've only ever slept with my fiancee, and I trusted him before I decided to sleep with him. And even after the three-and-a-half years we've been together, I still feel more emotionally connected when we're having sex regularly.
It would be virtually impossible for me to meet someone from a site like craigslist specifically for sex and nothing else because I'd be worrying about the risks the whole time, and I doubt I'd be able to enjoy the sex.
I also agree with Jade that communicating with and/or meeting a stranger can be intimidating. And it seems like women tend to have more "body issues" (not only about their breasts) than men in general.
Posted Sun Apr 18, 2010 01:58 PM
Apart from issues with sex drive differences, casual anonymous sex simply holds too much risk for a woman compared to a man and offers little sexual reward in return (for her). And incidentally, that inherent risk asymmetry is part of what men are compensating women for when they pay a woman for that quickie anonymous blow job or quick fuck at the side of the road (Italy style, lol) or whatever.
So I find it highly unlikely that there will ever be women clamoring to suck some random stranger's dick from a personal ad, like men are willing to do. Now that's not to say women can't be experimentational or get drunk at the bar or make some "mistakes", lol. But finding a cisgendered woman---with all of the physical and emotional vulnerability that comes with that---who simply enjoys blowing/fucking strangers like a man would, is going to be pretty rare.
This post has been edited by cocoa70: Sun Apr 18, 2010 01:59 PM
Posted Sun Apr 18, 2010 02:54 PM
Posted Sun Apr 18, 2010 03:36 PM
Not that I think thats really the way forward, not really.