Sex with college classmate I thought there was a connection, but maybe not?
Posted Fri Apr 23, 2010 03:23 PM
It wasn't until there were about 2 weeks left of the semester when he asked me to add him on Facebook, and from there we chatted and he gave me his number. Finals week...4/20 I was in his neck of the woods and he told me to drop by, so I did. We laughed and talked just like we were in class. He wrestled me onto the bed and started to kiss me. I got nervous and pushed away at first, I didn't want to rush anything and mess it up, but in the end we had sex. It wasn't bad, but I was so nervous that I don't think I performed as good as I am capable...and maybe he didn't think it was that good.
So, my question is: I know its only been 3 days, but I haven't heard from him since...I haven't tried to contact him. I KNOW he's not a douchebag, and I hate to think I ruined a friendship/mis-read signs. Should I just take this as another casual hook-up? Did I overthink everything?
Posted Fri Apr 23, 2010 04:32 PM
Posted Fri Apr 23, 2010 07:50 PM
Posted Sun Apr 25, 2010 09:10 AM
Posted Sun Apr 25, 2010 08:59 PM
So untill one of you makes the first move there is a heap of WHAT IF'S out there. Take the plunge and then you will know where you stand and where he stands.
Posted Mon Apr 26, 2010 01:28 AM
not getting a phone call from a guy after, is common. even if it was the best sex he ever had, i would go so far as to say, especially if was the best sex he ever had. i think it was God that said to men 'thou shalt never call a woman within 3 days of hooking up, lest thou wanteth to looketh desperate in her eyes'
men are terrified of comming across as desperate or infatuated or anything like that, and rightly so! because i'd venture to say that most women don't like men that too easily give up the chase.
i'd be willing to bet that he'd really like to hear from you.
just keep it light hearted like it was before, until you figure out what kinds of pages you guys are on.
Posted Mon Apr 26, 2010 09:41 AM
Posted Wed Apr 28, 2010 10:43 PM
All the best, remember if it doesn't work out there are at least a couple of billion others and counting to chose from.
Posted Tue May 04, 2010 07:57 PM
Thanks for the advice all!
Posted Tue May 04, 2010 09:55 PM