Does he still love me?
Posted Mon May 03, 2010 10:15 PM
Posted Mon May 03, 2010 10:31 PM
It won't be for the rest of your life, so don't worry about that. Only until he decides on his next girlfriend and posts about her in his Facebook.
Posted Tue May 04, 2010 05:56 PM
On the other hand, you could ask him how he feels about relationship counseling or something to test his commitment to "dealing with" whatever it is that needs to be worked out. You don't have anything to lose with counseling if you can afford it---maybe thru a church if y'all belong, etc.
If not there are some books that you can work through together, which is a cheaper option but will probably yield less information. Either you discover that you need to part or maybe you can salvage something.
But as is...it doesn't look good.
Posted Wed May 05, 2010 06:17 AM
Posted Wed May 05, 2010 08:09 AM
I don't believe he loves you. He really likes you and loves having sex, but as soon as some thing else he thinks is better comes along, you probably wont hear much from him.
My advise would be, if your happy with it for time being, go along and enjoy the attention he's giving you, but don't invest to much into him. And since he's looking for something better it should be ok for you to look at the same time..
On the other hand he might just be playing the game... If I don't seen totally interested in her, she will try harder to make me hers... Ya it's a game, but believe it or not, it's a game that works on most of us..
Posted Wed May 05, 2010 10:02 AM
However new beginnings are exciting and can be so much fun!
Posted Sat May 08, 2010 02:43 PM
Posted Sat May 15, 2010 12:15 PM
A lot of men (especially under 30) feel like if they don't have sex with as many people as possible, they are missing out in life (maybe due to their buddies...porn...).
So even if they meet someone they love or is a perfect match for their personality, they don't feel they have experienced enough women and make the mistake of moving on.
Trust me, he will regret it and think about it later, but I guarantee you will find somebody better who will treasure you and is at the right stage. You just need to have a little patience, and be happy alone. Then you can be happy together!
Plus, not EVERY guy is like what I mentioned above.
Posted Sat May 15, 2010 03:31 PM