For you male submissives
Posted Sun May 23, 2010 11:36 PM
Posted Mon May 24, 2010 12:59 AM
Id rather her be wearing nothing.
Posted Mon May 24, 2010 01:10 AM
Posted Tue May 25, 2010 08:22 AM
Communication is very important in a dom-sub relationship. I suggest you sit down with him and discuss what kinds of things he envisions happening when you are in role, and what his limits are. You can google BDSM checklist and find lots of wonderful printable charts that he can fill out, telling what he is interested in and on what scale. I personally use this one
but you can use any one you like. I also suggest you study BDSM as much as possible, because it isn't really a game and can become intensely psychological. It's a lot more than just you forcing him to eat your pussy. Use your search engine and use key phrases like "how to train your slave" and "submission training".
Have fun and be safe!
Posted Tue May 25, 2010 10:02 AM
Thats the best kind of mistress! lol, you could also mean just a mistress for your own personal pleasure which then brings you onto what goddess is talking about.
Its not just about humiliation in fact its not really about that and pain, its often just about having an adoring man willing to give himself totally over to your control!
So its important that you are comfortable, both of you in your roleplay.
Posted Wed May 26, 2010 01:58 AM
I haven't had an experience of not being in control, sadly. I'm good at adoration though, I'll post something when I find out