Squirting? How do I make a girl squirt?
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 03:01 AM
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 03:51 AM
My mrs is a regular "squirter"
My first bit of advice would be to get her very very relaxed, you know the scenario, candles, nice wine, fire, lots of massage, this always works for the mrs. Although this is not always the case, sometime she'll squirt after a few wines and some nice long foreplay.
As for actually "how" to make her squirt then I'm going to take a punt and say its different for all women, the first time my mrs covered the floor, she was stood up and I fingered her fast and hard and that did it, her legs gave way and to be honest at first we both thought she had wee'd !!!
Now though, I can do it with my cock alone, after lots of foreplay usually, just deep long thrust, then fast short thrusts and next thing you know she spits me out if a gush of lovely lady fluid.
As long as the mood is right and your girl is not tense, take your time to put her first and make her feel like the only woman in the world and that should work, or at least it should....
Failing that, send her round, i'll sort it and write some tips down !!!
Hope you get on OK.
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 03:57 AM
Aim to spend alot of time on foreplay and slowly building up the tension...
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 04:23 AM
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 05:57 AM
The G-spot is located on the front wall of the vaginia, its only about 2 inches into the vagina right above the pubic bone. It is a rough patch of flesh that feels different than any other part of her vagina. Its always best to make sure your lady is aroused before you reach for it, the more turned on she is the the more the G-spot engorges and makes itself appear.
Once you locate this patch carress it, you can do different things to it as far as rubbing it goes. I find it was easy to access this patch by having my lady on her back with her ankles close to her ears. I use my two middle fingers on one hand while I push down on her pubic bone with my free hand. As I rub this spot I increase my speed to the point where I feel pressure pushing back. Once I feel that pressure I rub at a a very rapid pace to where I feel her vagina contract and then I pull my fingers out and let her erupt.
There is a great "how to" video on xnxx.com , look it up and try the method in the video. It takes a little practice and its always a good thing to explain what your doing to your lady friend. Women normally feel as though they are going to urinate and that is when most women will request for you to stop. It is important that your lady friend allow you to push beyond that point of urination and allow the orgasm that will follow.
Good luck, squirting is amazing, for me there is nothing better than watching my wife explode with ecstacy from a squirting orgasm.
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 06:14 AM
Now that's being a true friend Bob.
I’d first like to address whether your girlfriend wants to squirt. If she doesn’t want to, then don’t go there, you’ll wind up with all sorts of trouble and you’ll gain nothing, except maybe your freedom. If she’s into it, then you can both have a lot of fun searching for the ‘holly grail’ of sexual experiences.
I’ve been reading a lot about female ejaculation lately and even the experts can’t even decide if it’s real or some urban myth. Most of the articles I’ve read do seem to agree that it’s possible, though they figure only a small percentage of women have that capacity to achieve it. I however, after doing extensive research on the subject (wink wink) believe it’s not only possible, but that most, if not all women have this capacity. Unfortunately, most women do not know, or believe in its existence, which is a major hurdle to overcome in obtaining it.
If your girlfriend is really on board with being able to discover her ability to ejaculate, then you both can have a lot of fun searching for the answers together. I’ve been able to get my wife to ejaculate several times, though it’s not really a squirt as you would see in porn vids, it was more just an unusual amount of fluid after sexual intercourse. What you see in the adult vids is probably not real, although I do not deny that some women probably do ejaculate with tremendous force. In all likely hood, most do not have that capability. What you can probably expect is little more than a large wet spot below her crotch afterwords. One of the biggest barriers for my wife to overcome was letting herself get past the urge to urinate. Form all that I’ve read and heard, as a woman approaches the point where she’s able to ejaculate, she feels a strong urge to urinate. If she can allow herself to understand that this feeling doesn’t mean she needs to pee, then she can continue to build up until she can release her ejaculation. It’s supposed to feel very satisfying when it happens; I’d imagine it closely resembles the sensations a man feels when he ejaculates. You’ll notice, if you are successful, that her ejaculate is clear, almost odorless and almost tasteless, and defiantly not urine.
My suggestion to you is this…talk it over with your girlfriend, and is you are both up for the quest, then read up on it. Lots of info posted here in Sex Forums and lots more out there on the web. Make it a game, a contest in which you are both on the same side seeking the same prize. Take a large towel to bed with you every night and have some fun. Also, please remember that the chase is more exhilarating than the prize.
And please, let us know how it turns out.
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 06:17 AM
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 10:40 AM
Posted Mon Jun 14, 2010 10:53 AM
As an added suggestion, try running your fingernails very softly over the soles of her feet just before and during her orgasm. She's less likely to be ticklish there then. I find it gets very interesting muscles twitching...