Do women PREFERRING cowgirl position really exist? women on top
Posted Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:40 PM
Do women who prefer cowgirl position really exist? If yes, are they really so rare or are my impressions false and misleading?
By preferring this position I do not mean that it is "tolerable" or "acceptable" or "good but not the best" for them or that they do it or like it only because it is a strong preference of their partners.
I mean, do any of you (girls) find cowgirl position as your favourite in terms that you love having sex in this position of your own accord and if you had to choose just one position in which you would have to spend most of your sexual life, it would be "woman on top"? Or guys, have you ever met such a woman who seemed to be "obsessed" with being on top?
If you really dislike this position, feel free to share your comments or possible reasons, too - at least I can read it to my girlfriend and she would be very happy because she does not like it so much. In fact, I understand when someone hates being on top because this is exactly my case even though I am a man ...(Well, in fact it is an exaggeration because I do not hate it as I do not hate anything which makes my girlfriend feel satisfied and I love her orgasms much more than my preferences for positions, so I do not want to sound as if I was complaining, I do not avoid any position which works for her.)
Posted Sun Jun 20, 2010 02:38 PM
I don't like reverse cowgirl though as i'm paranoid of how I look from behind
Posted Mon Jun 21, 2010 02:45 AM
Posted Tue Jun 22, 2010 10:45 AM
I have found that I have an even harder time getting off than I usually do normally. I usually take a long time anyway, and being on top just doesn't get me off. Period. It has happened maybe twice (if I had to guess) in the whole time we've been having sex.
I (and my legs) get very tired easily, and I can't go for very long. I find that I don't really enjoy being on top very much.
I prefer missionary (or variations especially) or doggy-style over being on top. I like when he's more in control. I like when he grabs me and moves me the way he wants me. I like regular missionary, my legs up over his shoulders, me turned more in a fetal position while he's still on top and basically entering me almost from behind that way, regular doggy-style, spooning... Being on top is my least favorite.
Posted Tue Jun 22, 2010 10:59 AM
Posted Wed Jun 23, 2010 08:36 AM
Maybe I have a small question for the girls who achieve orgasms both when being on top and in other positions - have you noticed any differences in the "type", intensity, duration or "quality" (or quantity as well:) of orgasms with regard to different positions? For example, being able to have a G spot orgasm/squirting only in a certain position and not in others etc...
I suppose it is individual.
As for me, although I am a male and male orgasms probably do not show such a variability as female orgasms in general, I have noticed that my orgasms in cowgirl position are quite different from missionary orgasms:), when I am on top, my orgasms tend to be shorter and less intense, leaving me with the feeling of not so full satisfaction (closer to the type of orgasms achieved by masturbation when it is me who is "responsible" for the stimulation, movements, speed, tempo etc and paradoxically this leaves me with less satisfaction than if it is done by someone else) while in a cowgirl position my orgasms are more intense and longer. I have noticed that I also prefer orgasms during a handjob or blowjob more than missionary orgasms.
I´m just curious if anyone here -men as well as women- has noticed something similar...
Posted Wed Jun 23, 2010 10:27 AM
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 09:25 AM
We, I don't even know when, started a long-running tradition where if she gets on top then the first slide down onto my dick is 'hers'. She gets to ease her way in, tease me slowly and take as long as she wants over it.
And, to no-one's surprise I'm sure, she does love to make me wait.
I seem to remember her saying that she was fairly self-conscious when we first tried cowgirl but has, with time and with compliments, really got into it and become a very happy cock-rider, haha.
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 05:05 PM
Do women who prefer cowgirl position really exist?
Giddy Up Cowboy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One of my favorite positions! Just as good reversed...
Posted Thu Jun 24, 2010 06:44 PM
Posted Sat Jun 26, 2010 01:04 PM
1) It lets me work her clit with my finger as she rides me
2) I get to play with her tits
4) I enjoy watching her play with her tits
3) I like watching the expression on her face when she cums
All this being said I don't really have a favorite position.
Posted Sat Jun 26, 2010 01:09 PM
U r a riot! However...don't ride without my hat! Cowgirl UP!
Posted Sat Jun 26, 2010 10:54 PM
Posted Sat Jun 26, 2010 11:21 PM
Posted Sun Jun 27, 2010 01:44 AM
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 03:32 AM
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 02:22 PM
A man after my own heart.....
Posted Wed Jul 28, 2010 03:50 PM